from an old boy, that in those days they used
to talk things over by the fireside, and think
there must be something very choice in a sin that
braved so much. Dr. —— went,
and, under ——, we never spoke of
such things. Curiosity died down, and the
thing itself, I believe, was lessened. We
were told to warn new boys of the dangers to health
and morals of such offences, lest the innocent should
be caught in ignorance. I have only spoken to
a few; I think the great thing is not to put it
in boys’ heads. I have noticed solitary
faults most commonly, and then I tell the boy how
he is physically weakening himself. If you notice,
it is puppies that seem to go against Nature,
but grown dogs, never. So, if two small boys
acted thus, I should think it merely an instinctive
feeling after Nature, which would amend itself.
Many here would consider it a heinous sin, but
those who think such things sins make them sins.
I have seen, in the old days, most delightful
little children sent away, branded with infamy, and
scarce knowing why—you might as well
expel a boy for scratching his head when it itched.
I am sure the soundest way is to treat it as a
doctor would, and explain to the boy the physical effects
of over-indulgence of any sort. When it is
combated from the monkish standpoint, the evil
becomes an epidemic.” I am, however, far
from anxious to indorse the policy of ignoring the
sexual phenomena of youth. It is not the
speaking about such things that should be called
in question, but the wisdom and good sense of the
speaker. We ought to expect a head-master to possess
both an adequate acquaintance with the nature
of the phenomena of auto-erotism and homosexuality,
and a reasonable amount of tact in dealing with
boys; he may then fairly be trusted to exercise his
own judgment. It may be doubted whether boys should
be made too alive to the existence of sexual phenomena;
there can be no doubt about their teachers.
The same is, of course, true as regards girls,
among whom the same phenomena, though less obtrusive,
are not less liable to occur.
As to whether masturbation is more common in one sex
than the other, there have been considerable differences
of opinion. Tissot considered it more prevalent
among women; Christian believed it commoner among men;
Deslandes and Iwan Bloch hold that there are no sexual
differences, and Garnier was doubtful. Lawson
Tait, in his Diseases of Women, stated his opinion
that in England, while very common among boys, it
is relatively rare among women, and then usually taught.
Spitzka, in America, also found it relatively rare
among women, and Dana considers it commoner in boys
than in girls or adults.[307] Moll is inclined to
think that masturbation is less common in women and
girls than in the male sex. Rohleder believes
that after puberty, when it is equally common in both
sexes, it is more frequently found in men, but that
women masturbate with more passion and imaginative
fervor.[308] Kellogg, in America, says it is equally