to vote; will it not take women from the home?
I am afraid the home will then suffer in consequence.
Will man accord woman the same reverence she has received
in the past? Should she have equal political rights?
A race lacking respect for women would never advance
socially or politically. I think women could
not have a more important part in the government of
the land than in rearing and educating their children
to be good, useful citizens. In what nobler work
could women engage than in work to promote the comfort
and well-being of the ones they love in the home?
I say, allow men to make the laws, as God and nature
planned. I think women should keep to the sphere
God made them for—the home. Said Gladstone,
’Woman is the most perfect when most womanly.’
There is nothing, I think, more despicable than a masculine,
mannish woman, unless it be an effeminate, sissy man.
Dr. Clarke voiced my sentiments when he said:
’Man is not superior to woman, nor woman to
man. The relation of the sexes is one of equality,
not of better or worse, of higher and lower.
The loftiest ideal of humanity demands that each shall
be perfect in its kind and not be hindered in its
best work. The lily is not inferior to the rose,
nor the oak superior to the clover; yet the glory
of the lily is one and the glory of the oak is another,
and the use of the oak is not the use of the clover.’
“This present-day generation demands of women
greater efficiency in the home than ever before.
And Mary, many of the old-time industries which I
had been accustomed to as a girl have passed away.
Electricity and numerous labor-saving devices make
household tasks easier, eliminating some altogether.
When housekeeping you will find time to devote to
many important questions of the day which we old-time
housekeepers never dreamed of having. Considerable
thought should be given to studying to improve and
simplify conditions of the home-life. It is your
duty. Obtain books; study food values and provide
those foods which nourish the body, instead of spending
time uselessly preparing dainties to tempt a jaded
appetite. Don’t spoil Ralph when you marry
him. Give him good, wholesome food, and plenty
of it; but although the cooking of food takes up much
of a housekeeper’s time, it is not wise to allow
it to take up one’s time to the exclusion of
everything else. Mary, perhaps my views are old-fashioned.
I am not a ‘new woman’ in any sense of
the word. The new woman may take her place beside
man in the business world and prove equally as efficient,
but I do not think woman should invade man’s
sphere any more than he should assume her duties.”