And it must be remembered that in civilized communities the cynics, who still frankly express this utter contempt, are better friends to women than the flatterers, who conceal it in the drawing-room, and only utter it freely in the lecture-room, the club, and the “North American Review.” Contempt at least arouses pride and energy. To be sure, in the face of history, the contemptuous tone in regard to women seems to me untrue, unfair, and dastardly; but, like any other extreme injustice, it leads to reaction. It helps to awaken women from that shallow dream of self-complacency into which flattery lulls them. There is something tonic in the manly arrogance of Fitzjames Stephen, who derides the thought that the marriage contract can be treated as in any sense a contract between equals; but there is something that debilitates in the dulcet counsel given by an anonymous gentleman, in an old volume of the “Ladies’ Magazine” that lies before me,—“She ought to present herself as a being made to please, to love, and to seek support; a being inferior to man, and near to angels.”
IX
OBJECTIONS TO SUFFRAGE
“When you were weak and I was strong, I toiled for you. Now you are strong and I am weak. Because of my work for you, I ask your aid. I ask the ballot for myself and my sex. As I stood by you, I pray you stand by me and mine.”—CLARA BARTON.
[Appeal to the returned soldiers
of the United States, written from
Geneva, Switzerland, by Clara
Barton, invalidated by long service in
the hospitals and on the field
daring the civil war.]
THE FACT OF SEX
It is constantly said that the advocates of woman suffrage ignore the fact of sex. On the contrary, they seem to me to be the only people who do not ignore it.