Soon after his return from Mexico he was married to Julia Dent.  The next six years were spent in military duty in Sacketts Harbor, New York, Detroit, Michigan, and on the Pacific coast.  He was promoted to the captaincy of a company in 1853; but because of the inadequacy of a captain’s pay, he resigned from the army, July, 1854, and rejoined his wife and children at St. Louis.  In speaking of this period Grant says, “I was now to commence at the age of thirty-two a new struggle for our support.”

The first chapter in this new struggle was farming.  The following letter was written to his youngest sister Mary, then sixteen years old, afterward Mrs. M.J.  Cramer.  “Jennie,” afterward Mrs. A.R.  Corbin, was the second sister, Virginia.]

St. Louis, Mo.,
August 22nd, 1857.

Dear sister: 

Your letter was received on last Tuesday, the only day in the week on which we get mail, and this is the earliest opportunity I have had of posting a letter.

I am glad to hear that mother and Jennie intend making us a visit.  I would advise them to come by the river if they prefer it.  Write to me beforehand about the time you will start, and from Louisville again, what boat you will be on, direct to St. Louis,—­not Sappington, P.O.—­and I will meet you at the river or Planter’s House, or wherever you direct.

We are all very well.  Julia contemplates visiting St. Charles next Saturday to spend a few days.  She has never been ten miles from home, except to come to the city, since her visit to Covington.

I have nothing in particular to write about.  My hard work is now over for the season with a fair prospect of being remunerated in everything but the wheat.  My wheat, which would have produced from four to five hundred bushels with a good winter, has yielded only seventy-five.  My oats were good, and the corn, if not injured by frost this fall, will be the best I ever raised.  My potato crop bids fair to yield fifteen hundred bushels or more.  Sweet potatoes, melons and cabbages are the only other articles I am raising for market.  In fact, the oats and corn I shall not sell.

I see I have written a part of this letter as if I intended to direct to one, and part as if to the other of you; but you will understand it, so it makes no difference.

Write to me soon and often.  Julia wears black.  I had forgotten to answer that part of your letter.

Your affectionate Brother,

ULYSS.

P.S.  Tell father that I have this moment seen Mr. Ford, just from Sacketts Harbor, who informs me that while there he enquired of Mr. Bagley about my business with Camp, and learns from him that the account should be acted upon immediately.  Camp is now at Governor’s Island, N.Y., and intends sailing soon for Oregon.  If he is stopped he may be induced to disgorge.  Tell father to forward the account immediately.

U.

[White Haven was the name of the Dent homestead near St. Louis.  Grant has rented out his own farm, and taken that of his father-in-law.