Prayer may properly be offered—­will be properly offered for many wholly personal things; for physical strength, healing in sickness, about dearly loved ones, money needed; indeed regarding things that may not be necessary but only desirable and enjoyable, for ours is a loving God who would have His dear ones enjoy to the full their lives down here.  But the motive determines the propriety of such requests.  Where the whole purpose of one’s life is for Him these things may be asked for freely as His gracious Spirit within guides.  And there need be no bondage of morbid introspection, no continual internal rakings. He knows if the purpose of the heart is to please Him.

The Shortest Way to God.

A third thing spoken of as hindering prayer is an unforgiving spirit.  You have noticed that Jesus speaks much about prayer and also speaks much about forgiveness.  But have you noticed how, over and over again He couples these two—­prayer and forgiveness?  I used to wonder why.  I do not so much now.  Nearly everywhere evidence keeps slipping in of the sore spots.  One may try to keep his lips closed on certain subjects, but it seems about impossible to keep the ears entirely shut.  And continually the evidence keeps sifting in revealing the thin skin, raw flesh, wounds never healed over, and some jaggedly open, almost everywhere one goes.  Jesus’ continual references reveal how strikingly alike is the oriental and the occidental; the first and the twentieth centuries.

Run through Matthew alone a moment.  Here in the fifth chapter:[16] “If thou are coming to the altar”—­that is approaching God; what we call prayer—­“and rememberest that thy brother hath aught against thee”—­that side of it—­“leave there thy gift and go thy way, first be reconciled,” and so on.  Here comes a man with a lamb to offer.  He approaches solemnly, reverently, towards the altar of God.  But as he is coming there flashes across his mind the face of that man, with whom he has had difficulty.  And instantly he can feel his grip tightening on the offering, and his teeth shutting closer at the quick memory.  Jesus says, “If that be so lay your lamb right down.”  What! go abruptly away!  Why! how the folks around the temple will talk!  “Lay the lamb right down, and go thy way.”  The shortest way to God for that man is not the way to the altar, but around by that man’s house. “First, be reconciled”—­keep your perspective straight—­follow the right order—­“first be reconciled”—­not second; “then come and offer thy gift.”