Just a little more—­If, after getting into one position or the other, it seems to the wife that she is not yet fairly abreast of her husband in the intensity of her passion, let her still further seek to advance it, as follows: 

If the position with the husband superior is taken, let him, after he has gotten into place and before the organs are united, have his wife take his penis in her hand, and, as he moves his hips up and down, stroke her vulva, especially the clitoris, with the glans penis—­not entering the vagina at once, but continuing this form of exterior contact of the organs, for a longer or shorter time—­slipping past the wide open vaginal mouth, even when the wife raises her thighs and, as it were, begs for an entrance; tantalizing her to the point of distraction—­till, finally, she will “take no for an answer” no longer, but will, in an ecstacy, slip the penis into the vagina, and thus consummate their union.

If she be far enough abandoned with her passion, such entrance may be made at a single stroke, not to say a furious plunge.  But if the vulva and vagina are not yet fully dilated, the entrance should be carefully made, gently made, as she can bear it, as she wishes it to be.

Sometimes, yes, not infrequently, in this position, the external stroking of the organs may be continued to the very verge of the orgasm, so that, especially if the entrance can be made, as it were, in a frenzy of passionate delight, the organs coming into full length union at a single impulse, or rushing together—­then the simultaneous climax may be reached with one or two in-and-out motions—­or, perhaps the single master-plunge may win the goal instanter!  If so, a consummation devoutly to be wished has been successfully reached!

Again, if the wife is slow, and the man is quick, in this play for “getting together,” it will enable the man to greatly extend and protract what might be called the time of his possible retention, if he can keep the foreskin over the glans penis.  Some men cannot do this.  If they have been circumcised, of course they cannot!  But if the glans penis can be covered with the foreskin during all this playing together, it will enable the husband to prolong his “retentional time” far beyond what he otherwise could.  Some men have the power of “retaining” to almost any length of time by the exercise of their will power, and so they can wait for their wives.  If the wife is slower timed than the husband, he should carefully cultivate the “art of retaining" and so wait for her. To do this successfully will greatly increase married happiness.

This same remark (keeping the gland covered) applies with equal force to the possibilities of the man’s retention after the organs are united, and all through the third part of the act.  If the penis can enter the vagina with its “natural cap on,” the husband can give his wife the pleasure of many times the amount of in-and-out motion than he could otherwise bestow upon her.  And if the wife is the slower of the two (as is generally the case) she will greatly appreciate such a favor, and will repay it a THOUSAND FOLD by the responsive, reciprocal motions which she will LAVISH upon her considerate lover.