is out for a constitutional, and that we may safely
say is not a privilege to be envied. The poor
thing has no name, and when she is born she goes by
the vague denomination of “So-and-so’s”
daughter. When there are several girls in the
family, to avoid confusion, surnames are found convenient
enough, but they are again lost the moment she marries,
which, as we shall see in another chapter, often happens
at a very early age. She then becomes “So-and-so’s”
wife. The woman in Corea has somewhat of a sad
and dull life, for from the age of four or five she
is separated even from her brothers and brought up
in a separate portion of the house, and from that
time ideas are pounded into her poor little head as
to the disgrace of talking, or even being looked at
by humans of a different gender. The higher classes,
of course, suffer most from the enforcement of this
strict etiquette, for in the very lowest grades of
society the woman enjoys comparative freedom.
She can talk to men as much as she pleases, and even
goes out unveiled, being much too low a being to be
taken any notice of; the upper classes, however, are
very punctilious as to the observance of their severe
rules. The Corean woman is a slave. She is
used for pleasure and work. She can neither speak
nor make any observations, and never is she allowed
to see any man other than her husband. She has
the right of the road in the streets, and the men are
courteous to her. Not only do the men make room
for her to pass, but even turn their faces aside so
as not to gaze at her. There are numberless stories
of a tragic character in Corean literature, of lovely
maidens that have committed suicide, or have been
murdered by their husbands, brothers, or fathers,
only for having been seen by men, and even to the
present day a husband would be considered quite justified
in the eye of the law if he were to kill his wife
for the great sin of having spoken to another man
but himself! A widow of the upper class is not
allowed to re-marry, and if she claims any pretence
of having loved her late husband, she ought to try
to follow him to the other world at the earliest convenience
by committing the jamun, a simple performance
by which the devoted wife is only expected to cut
her throat or rip her body open with a sharp sword.
They say that it is a mere nothing, when you know
how to do it, but it always struck me, that practising
a little game of that sort would not be an easy matter.
For the sake of truth, I must confess that it was
a husband who depreciated the worthy act. The
lower people are infinitely more sensible. Though
a woman of this class were to lose twenty husbands,
she would never for a moment think of doing away with
herself, but would soon enter into her twenty-first
matrimonial alliance.