that she now puts away childish things and devotes
herself to the serious tasks of life. She has
then been carefully dressed for the occasion.
Her hair, however she may have worn it before or may
wear it afterwards, is for to-day made up into six
plaits or braids, which are wound into a coil on the
top of her head. As an initial rite it is parted
by means of an instrument resembling a spear, a survival
of the time when a bride was a prize of war, and when
her long locks were actually divided by a veritable
spear in token of her subjection. Round this coiffure
is placed a bridal wreath, made of flowers which she
must have gathered with her own hands, and over her
head is thrown a veil—more strictly a cloth—of
some orange-yellow or “flame-coloured”
material, which does not, however, like the Grecian
or Oriental veil, conceal her face. On her feet
are low yellow shoes. Meanwhile the bridegroom
arrives, escorted by his friends, and he also wears
a festal garland. As with all other important
undertakings of Roman life, a professional seer will
be in attendance to take care that the auspices are
favourable. Peculiar portents, very unpropitious
behaviour of nature, a very strange appearance in
the entrails of a sacrificial victim, are omens which
no properly constituted Roman can afford to overlook.
The auspices being favourable—and there
is reason to believe that no undue insistence was
laid on their unpropitious aspects—the bride
is led into the reception-hall, and the contract of
marriage is signed and sealed. That there should
be a dowry, and a considerable one, goes without saying.
In some cases it is actually settled on the husband,
who is to all intents and purposes purchased by it;
but in most it is available for his use only so long
as the marriage continues unbroken. For the rest,
the wife’s property is and remains her own.
Her guardian is still her father and not her husband:
her legal connection is still with her own family
and not with his. She is a Marcia and not a Silia.
If the marriage is dissolved, at least without sufficient
demonstrable provocation on her part, her father will
see that her dower is paid back. To such terms
as these the parties affix their names and seals,
and a certain number of friends add their signatures
as witnesses.
This done, one of the younger married women present
takes the bride and leads her across to Silius who
holds her right hand in his. Both repeat a prescribed
formula of words, and all the company present exclaims
“Good luck to you!” and offers such other
congratulations as seem fit. A wedding-dinner
is held, generally, but not necessarily, in the house
of the bride, and a wedding-cake, served upon bay-leaves,
is cut up and divided among the guests. It is
now evening, and a procession is formed to bring Marcia
home to the house of Silius. In front will march
the torchbearers and what we should call “the
band,” consisting in these circumstances of
a number of persons playing upon the flageolet.