grief,—so wonderfully illustrated by a Florence
Nightingale, and by women quite as worthy in our own
land, whose presence in the hospitals was like a benediction
from God, and whose presence in our homes, in our
churches, beside the sad and sorrowing everywhere,
is proof that woman has a mission which she alone can
fill, and a work which she alone can perform.
“And now abideth faith, hope, and charity, and
the greatest of these is charity.” Man has
faith, he has hope; but he lacks, to a large extent,
in the charities which come to woman as gifts of God,
because of which Christ employed her as an agency
to win men back to faith in God. In the sick chamber
she moves with step noiseless as falling snow-flakes,
and speaks in a voice soft as an angel’s whisper.
Her touch is so gentle that it soothes the sufferer,
and her sympathy is more precious than rubies.
On this account she is man’s first and last solace.
Suffering never appeals to woman in vain. “I
never addressed myself,” says Ledyard, “in
the language of decency and friendship to woman, whether
civilized or savage, without receiving a decent and
friendly answer. With man it has often been otherwise.
In wandering over the barren plains of inhospitable
Denmark, through honest Sweden, frozen Lapland, rude
and churlish Finland, unprincipled Russia, and the
wide-spread regions of the wandering Tartar, if hungry,
dry, cold, wet, or sick, woman has ever been friendly
to me, and uniformly so; and, to add to this virtue,—so
worthy of the appellation of benevolence,—these
actions have been performed in so free and kind a
manner, that if I was dry, I drank the sweet draught,
and if hungry, ate the coarse morsel, with a double
relish.” Park, and many other travellers,
bear similar testimony.
“Woman
all exceeds
In ardent sanctitude, in pious deeds;
And chief in woman charities prevail,
That soothe when sorrow or desire assail;
Ask the poor pilgrim on this convex cast,—
His grizzled locks, distorted in the blast,—
Ask him what accents soothe, what hand
bestows
The cordial beverage, raiment, and repose.
Ah! he will dart a spark of ardent flame,
And clasp his tremulous hands, and Woman
name.
Peruse the sacred volume. Him who
died
Her kiss betrayed not, nor her tongue
denied;
While even the apostles left Him to His
doom,
She lingered round His cross and watched
His tomb.”
How precious is such sympathy in her who is to be
the solace, because the helpmeet, of man! How
it qualifies her for being the priestess of the temple
of home; the gentle nurse of helpless infancy, manhood’s
counsellor and comforter!
“O Woman! Woman! thou wast
made,
Like heaven’s own pure
and lovely light,
To cheer life’s dark and desert
shade,
And guide man’s erring
footsteps right.”
This is a power which monarchs well might envy,—a
power to bless mankind and honor God; a power which,
working in obscure and limited sphere, is yet felt
in the high places of the earth, and identified with
the deeds of men whose names are renowned in the history
of the world, and shine as stars in the diadem of
God.