When Cowper was six years old his mother died; and seldom has a child, even such a child, lost more, even in a mother.  Fifty years after her death he still thinks of her, he says, with love and tenderness every day.  Late in his life his cousin Mrs. Anne Bodham recalled herself to his remembrance by sending him his mother’s picture.  “Every creature,” he writes, “that has any affinity to my mother is dear to me, and you, the daughter of her brother, are but one remove distant from her, I love you therefore, and love you much, both for her sake and for your own.  The world could not have furnished you with a present so acceptable to me as the picture which you have so kindly sent me.  I received it the night before last, and received it with a trepidation of nerves and spirits somewhat akin to what I should have felt had its dear original presented herself to my embraces.  I kissed it and hung it where it is the last object which I see at night, and the first on which I open my eyes in the morning.  She died when I completed my sixth year; yet I remember her well, and am an ocular witness of the great fidelity of the copy, I remember too a multitude of the maternal tendernesses which I received from her, and which have endeared her memory to me beyond expression.  There is in me, I believe, more of the Donne than of the Cowper, and though I love all of both names, and have a thousand reasons to love those of my own name, yet I feel the bond of nature draw me vehemently to your side.”  As Cowper never married, there was nothing to take the place in his heart which had been left vacant by his mother.

  My mother! when I learn’d that thou wast dead,
  Say, wast thou conscious of the tears I shed? 
  Hover’d thy spirit o’er thy sorrowing son,
  Wretch even then, life’s journey just begun? 
  Perhaps thou gayest me, though unfelt, a kiss;
  Perhaps a tear, if souls can weep in bliss—­
  Ah, that maternal smile!—­it answers—­Yes. 
  I heard the bell toll’d on thy burial day,
  I saw the hearse that bore thee slow away,
  And, turning from my nursery window, drew
  A long, long sigh, and wept a last adieu! 
  But was it such?—­It was.—­Where thou art gone
  Adieus and farewells are a sound unknown. 
  May I but meet thee on that peaceful shore,
  The parting word shall pass my lips no more! 
  Thy maidens, grieved themselves at my concern,
  Oft gave me promise of thy quick return. 
  What ardently I wish’d, I long believed,
  And disappointed still, was still deceived;
  By expectation every day beguiled,
  Dupe of to-morrow even from a child. 
  Thus many a sad to-morrow came and went,
  Till, all my stock of infant sorrows spent,
  I learn’d at last submission to my lot,
  But, though I less deplored thee, ne’er forgot.

In the years that followed no doubt he remembered her too well.  At six years of age this little mass of timid and quivering sensibility was, in accordance with the cruel custom of the time, sent to a large boarding school.  The change from home to a boarding school is bad enough now; it was much worse in those days.