the thumb of the right hand rent away, beyond the
possibility of mending. Whence the phenomenon?
It comes of the writer’s determined habit of
stopping the bully. Walking along the street,
or the country-road, I occasionally see a big blackguard
fellow thrashing a boy much less than himself.
I am well aware that some prudent individuals would
pass by on the other side, possibly addressing an
admonition to the big blackguard. But I approve
Thomson’s statement, that “prudence to
baseness verges still”; and I follow a different
course. Suddenly approaching the blackguard, by
a rapid movement, generally quite unforeseen by him,
I take him by the arm, and occasionally (let me confess)
by the neck, and shake him till his teeth rattle.
This, being done with a new glove on the right hand,
will generally unfit that glove for further use.
For the bully must be taken with a grip so firm and
sudden as shall serve to paralyze his nervous system
for the time. And never once have I found the
bully fail to prove a whimpering coward. The
punishment is well deserved, of course; and it is
a terribly severe one in ordinary cases. It is
a serious thing, in the estimation both of the bully
and his companions, that he should have so behaved
as to have drawn on himself the notice of a passer-by,
and especially of a parson. The bully is instantly
cowed; and by a few words to any of his school-associates
who may be near, you can render him unenviably conspicuous
among them for a week or two. I never permit
bullying to pass unchecked; and so long as my strength
and life remain, I never will. I trust you never
will. If you could stand coolly by, and see the
cruelty you could check, or the wrong you could right,
and move no finger to do it, you are not the reader
I want, nor the human being I choose to know.
I hold the cautious and sagacious man, who can look
on at an act of bullying without stopping it and punishing
it, as a worse and more despicable animal than the
bully himself.
Of course, you must interfere with judgment; and you
must follow up your interference with firmness.
Don’t intermeddle, like Don Quixote, in such
a manner as to make things worse. It is only in
the case of continued and systematic cruelty that
it is worth while to work temporary aggravation, to
the end of ultimate and entire relief. And sometimes
that is unavoidable. You remember how, when Moses
made his application to Pharaoh for release to the
Hebrews, the first result was the aggravation of their
burdens. The supply of straw was cut off, and
the tale of bricks was to remain the same as before.
It could not be helped. And though things came
right at last, the immediate consequence was that
the Hebrews turned in bitterness on their intending
deliverer, and charged their aggravated sufferings
upon him. Now, my friend, if you set yourself
to the discomfiture of a bully, see you do it effectually.
If needful, follow up your first shaking. Find
out his master, find out his parents; let the fellow
see distinctly that your interference is no passing
fancy. Make him understand that you are thoroughly
determined that his bullying shall cease. And
carry out your determination unflinchingly.