Last and most important of all was the question of the mode of conduct and the etiquette to be established with regard to the President himself.  In this, as in the matter of titles, Washington saw a real importance in what many persons might esteem only empty forms, and he proceeded with his customary thoroughness in dealing with the subject.  What he did would be a precedent for the future as well as a target for present criticism, and he determined to devise a scheme which would resist attack, and be worthy to stand as an example for his successors.  He therefore wrote to Madison:  “The true medium, I conceive, must lie in pursuing such a course as will allow him (the President) time for all the official duties of his station.  This should be the primary object.  The next, to avoid as much as may be the charge of superciliousness, and seclusion from information, by too much reserve and too great a withdrawal of himself from company on the one hand, and the inconveniences, as well as a diminution of respectability, from too free an intercourse and too much familiarity on the other.”  This letter, with a set of queries, was also sent to the Vice-President, to Jay, and to Hamilton.  They all agreed in the general views outlined by Washington.  Adams, fresh from Europe, was inclined to surround the office, of which he justly had a lofty conception, with a good deal of ceremony, because he felt that these things were necessary in our relations with foreign nations.  In the main, however, the advice of all who were consulted was in favor of keeping the nice line between too much reserve and too much familiarity, and this line, after all the advising, Washington of course drew for himself.  He did it in this way.  He decided that he would return no calls, and that he would receive no general visits except on specified days, and official visitors at fixed hours.  The third point was in regard to dinner parties.  The presidents of Congress hitherto had asked every one to dine, and had ended by keeping a sort of public table, to the waste of both time and dignity.  Many persons, disgusted with this system, thought that the President ought not to ask anybody to dinner.  But Washington, never given to extremes, decided that he would invite to dinner persons of official rank and strangers of distinction, but no one else, and that he would accept no invitations for himself.  After a time he arranged to have a reception every Tuesday, from three to four in the afternoon, and Mrs. Washington held a similar levee on Fridays.  These receptions, with a public dinner every week, were all the social entertainments for which the President had either time or health.