waitress, laundress, seamstress, baker, cook, governess,
purchasing agent, dietitian, accountant, and confectioner.
In the early days of this country, in addition to these
duties, women were also called upon to be butchers,
sausage-makers, tailors, spinners, weavers, shoemakers,
candle-makers, cheese-makers, soap-makers, dyers,
gardeners, florists, shepherds, bee-keepers, poultry-keepers,
brewers, picklers, bottlers, butter-makers, mil-liners,
dressmakers, hatters, and first-aid physicians, surgeons
and nurses. In more modern times, women have
entered nearly all vocations. But even yet there
is much prejudice against the woman who “descends”
out of her traditional “sphere.”
The woman who is not a wife, mother, and house-keeper—or
a domestic parasite, housekeeping by proxy—loses
caste among the patricians. Many men and, on
their behalf, their mothers and sisters, shudder at
the sordid thought of marrying a girl who has been
so base as to “work for her living.”
And so stenographers, clerks, accountants, saleswomen,
factory workers, telephone operators, and all other
women in the business world are about 99 per cent temporary
workers. Even in executive positions and in the
professions, most women look upon wages and salaries
as favoring breezes, necessary until they drop anchor
in the haven of matrimony. And even those who
most sincerely proclaim themselves wedded to their
careers, in many instances, exercise their ancient
privilege, change their minds, and give up all else
for husband and home.
Every normal woman was intended by nature to marry.
It is right that she should marry. She does not
truly and fully live unless she does marry. She
misses deep and true joy who is not happily married—and
usually feels cheated. But the same may be said
of every normal man. The difference is that,
according to tradition, marriage is woman’s career,
while man may choose a life work according to his
aptitudes. Because of prejudice, however, it
is rarely that the happily married woman makes a business
or professional career. Husbands, except those
who do so through necessity or those who are unafraid
of convention, do not permit their wives to work outside
of the home. Because of false pride, many men
say: “I am the bread-winner. If I
cannot support my wife as she should be supported,
then I do not wish to marry.” And so thousands
of women sigh away their lives at work they hate while
a hungry, sad world suffers for what they would love
to do.
The waste of these misfits is threefold: First,
the women lose the opportunity for service, profit,
and enjoyment which should be theirs. Second,
the world loses the excellent services which they might
render. Third, oftentimes these women are very
poor housekeepers. They simply have not the aptitudes.
Their husbands and their families suffer.
WOMEN WITHOUT HOMES