permitted to learn the languages. I have heard
it lamented that boys lose so many years in mere learning
of words: this is no objection to a girl, whose
time is not so precious: she cannot advance herself
in any profession, and has therefore more hours to
spare; and as you say her memory is good, she will
be very agreeably employed this way. There are
two cautions to be given on this subject: first,
not to think herself learned when she can read Latin,
or even Greek. Languages are more properly to
be called vehicles of learning than learning itself,
as may be observed in many schoolmasters, who, though
perhaps critics in grammar, are the most ignorant
fellows upon earth. True knowledge consists in
knowing things, not words. I would wish her no
further a linguist than to enable her to read books
in their originals, that are often corrupted, and
always injured, by translations. Two hours’
application every morning will bring this about much
sooner than you can imagine, and she will have leisure
enough besides to run over the English poetry, which
is a more important part of a woman’s education
than it is generally supposed. Many a young damsel
has been ruined by a fine copy of verses, which she
would have laughed at if she had known it had been
stolen from Mr. Waller. I remember, when I was
a girl, I saved one of my companions from destruction,
who communicated to me an epistle she was quite charmed
with. As she had a natural good taste, she observed
the lines were not so smooth as Prior’s or Pope’s,
but had more thought and spirit than any of theirs.
She was wonderfully delighted with such a demonstration
of her lover’s sense and passion, and not a
little pleased with her own charms, that had force
enough to inspire such elegancies. In the midst
of this triumph I showed her that they were taken
from Randolph’s poems, and the unfortunate transcriber
was dismissed with the scorn he deserved. To say
truth, the poor plagiary was very unlucky to fall
into my hands; that author being no longer in fashion,
would have escaped any one of less universal reading
than myself. You should encourage your daughter
to talk over with you what she reads; and, as you
are very capable of distinguishing, take care she
does not mistake pert folly for wit and humour, or
rhyme for poetry, which are the common errors of young
people, and have a train of ill consequences.
The second caution to be given her (and which is most
absolutely necessary) is to conceal whatever learning
she attains, with as much solicitude as she would
hide crookedness or lameness; the parade of it can
only serve to draw on her the envy, and consequently
the most inveterate hatred, of all he and she fools,
which will certainly be at least three parts in four
of all her acquaintance. The use of knowledge
in our sex, besides the amusement of solitude, is
to moderate the passions, and learn to be contented
with a small expense, which are the certain effects
of a studious life; and it may be preferable even