strangers—people whose faces I had never
seen before. In this state I had charge given
me of a set of pampered, spoilt, turbulent children,
whom I was expected constantly to amuse, as well as
to instruct. I soon found that the constant demand
on my stock of animal spirits reduced them to the
lowest state of exhaustion; at times I felt—and,
I suppose, seemed—depressed. To my
astonishment, I was taken to task on the subject by
Mrs.——, with a sternness of manner
and a harshness of language scarcely credible; like
a fool, I cried most bitterly. I could not help
it; my spirits quite failed me at first. I thought
I had done my best—strained every nerve
to please her; and to be treated in that way, merely
because I was shy and sometimes melancholy, was too
bad. At first I was for giving all up and going
home. But, after a little reflection, I determined
to summon what energy I had, and to weather the storm.
I said to myself, ’I have never yet quitted
a place without gaining a friend; adversity is a good
school; the poor are born to labour, and the dependent
to endure.’ I resolved to be patient, to
command my feelings, and to take what came; the ordeal,
I reflected, would not last many weeks, and I trusted
it would do me good. I recollected the fable of
the willow and the oak; I bent quietly, and now, I
trust, the storm is blowing over me. Mrs. ——
is generally considered an agreeable woman; so she
is, I doubt not, in general society. Her health
is sound, her animal spirits good, consequently she
is cheerful in company; but oh! does this compensate
for the absence of every fine feeling—of
every gentle and delicate sentiment? She behaves
somewhat more civilly to me now than she did at first,
and the children are a little more manageable; but
she does not know my character, and she does not wish
to know it. I have never had five minutes’
conversation with her since I came, except while she
was scolding me. I have no wish to be pitied,
except by yourself; if I were talking to you I could
tell you much more.
To WILLIAM WORDSWORTH
Thanks for advice
[1840.]
... Authors are generally very tenacious of their
productions, but I am not so much attached to this
but that I can give it up without much distress.
No doubt, if I had gone on, I should have made quite
a Richardsonian concern of it.... I had materials
in my head for half-a-dozen volumes.... Of course,
it is with considerable regret I relinquish any scheme
so charming as the one I have sketched. It is
very edifying and profitable to create a world out
of your own brains, and people it with inhabitants,
who are so many Melchisedecs, and have no father nor
mother but your own imagination.... I am sorry
I did not exist fifty or sixty years ago, when the
Ladies’ Magazine was flourishing like
a green bay tree. In that case, I make no doubt,
my aspirations after literary fame would have met