Persons who are in doubt as to which form of the pronoun to use often try to avoid the difficulty by using one of the pronouns ending in “-self”—pronouns which have the same form for both the nominative and the objective case. Thus many persons, uncertain whether to use “I” or “me” in the sentence quoted above, would say instead, “She invited Mrs. R. and myself to go driving.” This is no better than “Mrs. R. and I,” or “her and I.” The pronouns in “-self” are properly used only for emphasis or in a reflexive sense.[49] It is right to say: “I will go myself”; “Carrie herself went to the door”; “God helps those who help themselves.” It would be wrong to say, “Harry and myself have bought a horse together.”
When a pronoun in “-self” is used reflexively, it refers to the subject of the clause in which it stands.
In sentences like “This advice is free to whoever will take it,” the word ending in “-ever” is the subject of the verb “will take,” not the object of the preposition “to.” The right form, therefore, is “whoever,” not “whomever.” The object or, better, the “base” of the preposition “to” is the whole clause, “whoever will take it.”
[47] Ibid., pp. 61-62. [48] I omit ye, you, because they are used interchangeably. I omit also compounds of who, whom. [49] “Foundations,” p. 64.
EXERCISE XXVII.
Insert the proper form of pronoun in each blank, and give the reason for your choice:—
I
I, ME, MYSELF. 1. Taking a carriage, my brother
and—drove to the east end of Cape
Elizabeth.
2. Mr. C. and—walked around the lake
by moonlight. 3. The walk gave pleasure to both
Mr. C. and—. 4. Between you and—,
affairs look dark. 5. The Star contains
a paper on “Our Streets,” which was written
by—. > 6. He is taller than—.[50]
7. There is, you remember, an old agreement between
you and— 8. May John and—go
to the ball-game? 9. Please let John and—go
to the ball-game. 10. They met Robert and—in
the village. 11. Who is there? Only—.
12. To send—away, and for a whole year,
too,—, who had never been away
from home, was not easy for
mother.
13. Will you let Brown and—have your
boat? 14. Dr. Holmes shook hands with the girls,—among
the rest. 15. Next month my brother and—are
going to Bar Harbor. 16. It was—who
called to you. 17. I was beside—. 18.
Would you go, if you were—? 19. Father
bought brother and—tickets for the concert.
20. He said he would bring some flowers to Frances
and—. 21. You suffer from headache more
than—. 22. We shall soon see which is
the better boxer, you or—. 23. Who rang
the bell?—. 24. The taller man was supposed
to be—. 25. Every one has gone except
you and—. 26. The world will rest content
with such poor things as you and—. 27.