This was pleasant—for the bridegroom!
To work two years for a wife, undergo a severe course
of willow sprouts at the close of his apprenticeship,
and then have no security against a possible breach
of promise on the part of the bride. His faith
in her constancy must be unlimited. The intention
of the whole ceremony was evidently to give the woman
an opportunity to marry the man or not, as she chose,
since it was obviously impossible for him to catch
her under such circumstances, unless she voluntarily
waited for him in one of the
pologs. The
plan showed a more chivalrous regard and deference
for the wishes and preferences of the gentler sex
than is common in an unreconstructed state of society;
but it seemed to me, as an unprejudiced observer,
that the same result might have been obtained without
so much abuse of the unfortunate bridegroom!
Some regard ought to have been paid to his feelings,
if he
was a man. I could not ascertain
the significance of the chastisement which was inflicted
by the women upon the bridegroom with the willow switches.
Dodd suggested that it might be emblematical of married
life—a sort of foreshadowing of future domestic
experience; but in view of the masculine Korak character,
this hardly seemed to me probable. No woman in
her senses would try the experiment a second time
upon one of the stern, resolute men who witnessed that
ceremony, and who seemed to regard it
then
as perfectly proper. Circumstances would undoubtedly
alter cases.
Mr. A.S. Bickmore, in the American Journal
of Science for May, 1868, notices this curious
custom of the Koraks, and says that the chastisement
is intended to test the young man’s “ability
to bear up against the ills of life”; but I
would respectfully submit that the ills of life do
not generally come in that shape, and that switching
a man over the back with willow sprouts is a very singular
way of preparing him for future misfortunes of any
kind.
Whatever may be the motive, it is certainly an infringement
upon the generally recognised prerogatives of the
sterner sex, and should be discountenanced by all
Koraks who favour masculine supremacy. Before
they know it, they will have a woman’s suffrage
association on their hands, and female lecturers will
be going about from band to band advocating the substitution
of hickory clubs and slung-shots for the harmless
willow switches, and protesting against the tyranny
which will not permit them to indulge in this interesting
diversion at least three times a week. [Footnote:
It is now well known that this ceremony is a form
of “marriage by capture” which is widely
prevalent among barbarous peoples.—G.K.
(1909).]