Cotton was the main product of most southern plantations and the owner usually depended upon the income from the sale of his yearly crop to maintain his home and upkeep of his slaves and cattle.  It was necessary for every farm to yield as much as possible and much energy was directed toward growing and picking large crops.  Although Mr. Heyward was a successful merchant, he did not lose sight of the fact that his country property could yield a bountiful supply of cotton, corn and tobacco.

Around the town house Mr. Heyward maintained an atmosphere of home life.  He wanted his family and his servants well cared for and spared no expense in making life happy.

As Willis remembers the beds were made of Florida moss and feathers.  Boards ware laid across for slats and the mattress placed upon the boards.  On top of the moss mattress a feather one was placed which made sleeping very comfortable.  In summer the feather mattress was often removed, sunned, aired and replaced in winter.  Goose and the downy feathers of chickens were saved and stored in large bags until enough were collected for a mattress and it was considered a prize to possess one.

Every family of note boasted the ownership of a horse and buggy or several of each.  The kind most popular during Willis’ boyhood was the one-seated affair with a short wagon-like bed in the rear of the seat.  Sometimes two seats were used.  The seats were removable and could be used for carrying baggage or other light weights.  The brougham, surrey and landam were unknown to Willis.

Before the Civil War and during the time the great struggle was in full swing, women wore hoop skirts, very full, held out with metal hoops.  Pantaloons were worn beneath them and around the ankle where they were gathered very closely, a ruffle edged with a narrow lace, finished them off.  The waist was tight fitting basque and sleeves which could be worn long or to elbow, were very full.  Women also wore their hair high up on their heads with frills around the face.  Negro women, right after slavery, fell into imitating their former mistresses and many of them who were fortunate enough to get employment used part of their earnings for at least one good dress.  It was usually made of woolen a yard wide, or silk.

Money has undergone a change as rapidly as some other commonplace things.  In Willis’ early life, money valued at less than one dollar was made of paper just as the dollar, five dollar or ten dollar bills were.  There was a difference however, in the paper representing ‘change’ and not as much care was taken in protecting it from being imitated.  The paper money used for change was called “shin plasters” and much of it flooded the southland during Civil War days.

Mr. Heyward did not enlist in the army to help protect the south’s demise but his eldest son, Charlie, went.  His younger son was not old enough to go.  Willis stated that Mr. Heyward did not go because he was in business and was needed at home to look after it.  It is not known whether Charlie was killed at war or not, but, Willis said he did not return home at the close of war.