with his book before his mouth, or his head under
the lid of his desk. It is perhaps the first day
of the school, and the teacher thinks he had better
make an example at the outset, and calls the boy out,
knowing nothing about his general character, and inflicts
some painful or degrading punishment before all the
school. A little afterward, as he becomes gradually
acquainted with the boy, he finds that he is of mild,
gentle disposition, generally obedient and harmless,
and that his offense was only an act of momentary
thoughtlessness, arising from some circumstances of
peculiar temptation at the time; a boy in the next
seat, perhaps, had just before given him the apple.
The teacher regrets, when too late, the hasty punishment.
He perceives that instead of having the influence
of salutary example upon the other boys, it must have
shocked their sense of justice, and excited dislike
toward a teacher so quick and severe, rather than of
fear of doing wrong themselves. It would be safer
to postpone such decided measures a little—to
avoid all open collisions, if possible, for a few
days. In such a case as the above, the boy might
be kindly spoken to in an under tone, in such a way
as to show both the teacher’s sense of the impropriety
of disorder, and also his desire to avoid giving pain
to the boy. If it then turns out that the individual
is ordinarily a well-disposed boy, all is right, and
if he proves to be habitually disobedient and troublesome,
the lenity and forbearance exercised at first will
facilitate the effect aimed at by subsequent measures.
Avoid, then, for the few first days, all open collision
with any of your pupils, that you may have opportunity
for minute and thorough observation.
And here the young teacher ought to be cautioned against
a fault which beginners are very prone to fall into,
that of forming unfavorable opinions of some of their
pupils from their air and manner before they see any
thing in their conduct which ought to be disapproved.
A boy or girl comes to the desk to ask a question
or make a request, and the teacher sees in the cast
of countenance, or in the bearing or tone of the individual,
something indicating a proud, or a sullen, or an ill-humored
disposition, and conceives a prejudice, often entirely
without foundation, which weeks perhaps do not wear
away. Every experienced teacher can recollect
numerous cases of this sort, and he learns, after
a time, to suspend his judgment. Be cautious,
therefore, on this point, and in the survey of your
pupils which you make during the first few days of
your school, trust to nothing but the most sure and
unequivocal evidences of character, for many of your
most docile and faithful pupils will be found among
those whose appearance at first prepossessed you strongly
against them.