* See Letter XLV. of this volume.

’That accordingly arriving there, and finding her two uncles together, he read to them the affecting letter; which left none of the three a dry eye:  that the absent, as is usual in such cases, bearing all the load, they accused her brother and sister; and besought him to put off his journey to town, till he could carry with him the blessings which she had formerly in vain solicited for; and (as they hoped) the happy tidings of a general reconciliation.

’That not doubting but his visit would be the more welcome to her, if these good ends could be obtained, he the more readily complied with their desires.  But not being willing to subject himself to the possibility of receiving fresh insult from her brother, he had given her uncles a copy of her letter, for the family to assemble upon; and desired to know, as soon as possible, the result of their deliberations.

’He tells her, that he shall bring her up the accounts relating to the produce of her grandfather’s estate, and adjust them with her; having actually in his hands the arrears due to her from it.

’He highly applauds the noble manner in which she resents your usage of her.  It is impossible, he owns, that you can either deserve her, or to be forgiven.  But as you do justice to her virtue, and offer to make her all the reparation now in your power; and as she is so very earnest with him not to resent that usage; and declares, that you could not have been the author of her calamities but through a strange concurrence of unhappy causes; and as he is not at a loss to know how to place to a proper account that strange concurrence; he desires her not to be apprehensive of any vindictive measures from him.’

Nevertheless (as may be expected) ’he inveighs against you; as he finds that she gave you no advantage over her.  But he forbears to enter further into this subject, he says, till he has the honour to see her; and the rather, as she seems so much determined against you.  However, he cannot but say, that he thinks you a gallant man, and a man of sense; and that you have the reputation of being thought a generous man in every instance but where the sex is concerned.  In such, he owns, that you have taken inexcusable liberties.  And he is sorry to say, that there are very few young men of fortune but who allow themselves in the same.  Both sexes, he observes, too much love to have each other in their power:  yet he hardly ever knew man or woman who was very fond of power make a right use of it.

’If she be so absolutely determined against marrying you, as she declares she is, he hopes, he says, to prevail upon her to take (as soon as her health will permit) a little tour abroad with him, as what will probably establish it; since traveling is certainly the best physic for all those disorders which owe their rise to grief or disappointment.  An absence of two or three years will endear her to every one, on her return, and every one to her.