felt as if they could bind themselves to any preconceived
form of words, and accordingly uttered such as the
Lord gave them at the moment. Theodore addressed
Angelina in a solemn and tender manner. He alluded
to the unrighteous power vested in a husband by the
laws of the United States over the person and property
of his wife, and he abjured all authority, all government,
save the influence which love would give to them over
each other as moral and immortal beings. I would
give much could I recall his words, but I cannot.
Angelina’s address to him was brief but comprehensive,
containing a promise to honor him, to prefer him above
herself, to love him with a pure heart fervently.
Immediately after this we knelt, and dear Theodore
poured out his soul in solemn supplication for the
blessing of God on their union, that it might be productive
of enlarged usefulness, and increased sympathy for
the slave. Angelina followed in a melting appeal
to our Heavenly Father, for a blessing on them, and
that their union might glorify Him, and then asked
His guidance and over-shadowing love through the rest
of their pilgrimage. A colored Presbyterian minister
then prayed, and was followed by a white one, and
then I felt as if I could not restrain the language
of praise and thanksgiving to Him who had condescended
to be in the midst of this marriage feast, and to
pour forth abundantly the oil and wine of consolation
and rejoicing. The Lord Jesus was the first guest
invited to be present, and He condescended to bless
us with His presence, and to sanction and sanctify
the union which was thus consummated. The certificate
was then read by William Lloyd Garrison, and was signed
by the company. The evening was spent in pleasant
social intercourse. Several colored persons were
present, among them two liberated slaves, who formerly
belonged to our father, had come by inheritance to
sister Anna, and had been freed by her. They
were our invited guests, and we thus had an opportunity
to bear our testimony against the horrible prejudice
which prevails against colored persons, and the equally
awful prejudice against the poor.”
This unconventional but truly religious marriage ceremony
was in perfect harmony with the loyal, noble natures
of Theodore Weld and Angelina Grimke, exemplifying
the simplicity of their lives and the strength of
their principles. No grand preparations preceded
the event; no wedding bells were rung on the occasion;
no rare gifts were displayed: but the blessing
of the lowly and the despised, and the heart-felt
wishes of co-workers and co-sufferers were the offerings
which lent to the occasion its purest joy and brightest
light.
But though so quietly and peacefully solemnized, this
marriage was to have its celebration,—one
little anticipated, but according well with the experiences
which had preceded it, and serving to make it all the
more impressive and its promises more sacred.