the customer being also aware that he knows it, and
adapts his charges to the fact, it is a case of ‘Greek
meet Greek,’ and, even if the customer deserves
reprobation, the tradesman certainly deserves no compassion.
But this is a case outside the range of honest dealing
altogether, and must be regulated by other sentiments
and other laws than those which prevail in ordinary
commerce. There is another well-known, and to
many men only too familiar, exception to the ordinary
relation of debtor and creditor. A friend ‘borrows’
money of you, though it is understood on both sides
that he will have no opportunity of repaying it, and
that it is virtually a gift. Here, as the creditor
does not expect any repayment, and the debtor knows
that he does not, there is no act of dishonesty, but
the debtor, by asking for a loan and not a gift, evades
the obligation of gratitude and reciprocal service
which would attach to the latter, and thus takes a
certain advantage of his benefactor. In this
case it would be far more straightforward, even if
it involved some humiliation, to use plain words, and
to accept at once the true position of a recipient,
and not affect the seeming one of a borrower.
Connected with the subject of debtor and creditor is
the ungrounded notion, to which I have already adverted,
that the payment of what are called debts of honour
ought to take precedence of all other pecuniary obligations.
As these ‘debts of honour’ generally arise
from bets or play or loans contracted with friends,
the position assumed is simply that debts incurred
to members of our own class or persons whom we know
place us under a greater obligation than debts incurred
to strangers or persons belonging to a lower grade
in society. As thus stated, the maxim is evidently
preposterous and indefensible, and affords a good
instance, as I have noticed in a previous chapter,
of the subordination of the laws of general morality
to the convenience and prejudices of particular cliques
and classes. If there is any competition at all
admissible between just debts, surely those which
have been incurred in return for commodities supplied
have a stronger claim than those, arising from play
or bets, which represent no sacrifice on the part
of the creditor.
Another instance of the class of cases which I am
now considering is to be found in reckless gambling.
Men who indulge in this practice are usually condemned
as being simply hare-brained or foolish; but, if we
look a little below the surface, we shall find that
their conduct is often highly criminal. Many
a time a man risks on play or a bet or a horse-race
or a transaction on the stock exchange the permanent
welfare, sometimes even the very subsistence, of his
wife and children or others depending on him; or,
if he loses, he cuts short a career of future usefulness,
or he renders himself unable to develope, or perhaps
even to retain, his business or his estates, and so
involves his tenants, or clerks, or workmen in his