his hands, goes forth on a missionary or a philanthropic
enterprise, like Xavier, or Henry Martyn, or Howard,
or Livingstone, or Patteson, or when a man, like Frederick
Vyner, insists on transferring his own chance of escape
from a murderous gang of brigands to his married friend,
humanity at large rightly regards itself as his debtor,
and ordinary men feel that their very nature has been
ennobled and exalted by his example. But it is
not only these acts of widely recognised heroism that
exact a response from mankind. In many a domestic
circle, there are men and women, who habitually sacrifice
their own ease and comfort to the needs of an aged
or sick or helpless relative, and, surely, it is not
with scorn for their weakness that their neighbours,
who know their privations, regard them, but with sympathy
and respect for their patience and self-denial.
The pecuniary risks and sacrifices which men are ready
to make for one another, in the shape of sureties
and bonds and loans and gifts, are familiar to us
all, and, though these are often unscrupulously wrung
from a thoughtless or over-pliant good-nature, yet
there are many instances in which men knowingly, deliberately,
and at considerable danger or loss to themselves,
postpone their own security or convenience to the
protection or relief of their friends. It is in
cases of this kind, perhaps, that the line between
weakness and generosity is most difficult to draw,
and, where a man has others dependent on him for assistance
or support, the weakness which yields to the solicitations
of a reckless or unscrupulous friend may become positively
culpable.
The last class of instances will be sufficient to
shew that it is not always easy to determine where
the good of others is greater than our own. Nor
is it ever possible to determine this question with
mathematical exactness. Men may, therefore, be
at least excused if, before sacrificing their own
interests or pleasures, they require that the good
of others for which they make the sacrifice shall be
plainly preponderant. And, even then, there is
a wide margin between the acts which we praise for
their heroism, or generosity, or self-denial, and
those which we condemn for their baseness, or meanness,
or selfishness. It must never be forgotten, in
the treatment of questions of morality, that there
is a large number of acts which we neither praise nor
blame, and this is emphatically the case where the
competition is between a man’s own interests
and those of his neighbours. We applaud generosity;
we censure meanness: but there is a large intermediate
class of acts which can neither be designated as generous
nor mean. It will be observed that, in my enumeration
of the classes of acts to which praise and blame,
self-approbation and self-disapprobation attach, I
have carefully drawn a distinction between the invariable
connexion which obtains between certain acts and the
ethical approval of ourselves or others, and the only
general connexion which obtains between the omission