of sacrifice, whereas all those acts of others which
we blame, or those acts of ourselves which, on reflexion,
we disapprove involve some amount of self-indulgence.
The conflict is between a man’s own lower and
higher good, or between his own good and the greater
good of others, or, in certain cases, as we shall
see presently, between the lesser good of some, reinforced
by considerations of self-interest or partiality, and
the greater good of others, not so reinforced, or even,
occasionally, between the pleasure or advantage of
others and a disproportionate injury to himself; and
he who, in the struggle, gives the preference to the
former of these motives usually becomes the object
of censure or, on reflexion, of self-disapprobation,
while he who gives the preference to the latter becomes
the object of praise or, on reflexion, of self-approbation.
I shall endeavour to illustrate this position by a
few instances mostly taken from common life.
We praise a man who, by due economy, makes decent
provision for himself in old age, as we blame a man
who fails to do so. Quite apart from any public
or social considerations, we admire and applaud in
the one man the power of self-restraint and the habit
of foresight, which enable him to subordinate his
immediate gratifications to his larger interests in
the remote future, and to forego sensual and passing
pleasures for the purpose of preserving his self-respect
and personal independence in later life. And
we admire and applaud him still more, if to these purely
self-regarding considerations he adds the social one
of wishing to avoid becoming a burden on his family
or his friends or the public. Just in the same
way, we condemn the other man, who, rather than sacrifice
his immediate gratification, will incur the risk of
forfeiting his self-respect and independence in after
years as well as of making others suffer for his improvidence.
A man who, by the exercise of similar economy and
forethought, makes provision for his family or relations
we esteem still more than the man who simply makes
provision for himself, because the sacrifice of passing
pleasures is generally still greater, and because
there is also, in this case, a total sacrifice of all
self-regarding interests, except, perhaps, self-respect
and reputation, for the sake of others. Similarly,
the man who has a family or relations dependent upon
him, and who neglects to make future provision for
them, deservedly incurs our censure far more than
the man who merely neglects to make provision for
himself, because his self-indulgence has to contend
against the full force of the social as well as the
higher self-regarding motives, and its persistence
is, therefore, the less excusable.