rudely by one, whose own Character has been very roughly
treated, answered a great deal of Heat and Intemperance
very calmly, ’Good Madam spare me, who am none
of your Match; I speak Ill of no Body, and it is a
new Thing to me to be spoken ill of.’ Little
Minds think Fame consists in the Number of Votes they
have on their Side among the Multitude, whereas it
is really the inseparable Follower of good and worthy
Actions. Fame is as natural a Follower of Merit,
as a Shadow is of a Body. It is true, when Crowds
press upon you, this Shadow cannot be seen, but when
they separate from around you, it will again appear.
The Lazy, the Idle, and the Froward, are the Persons
who are most pleas’d with the little Tales which
pass about the Town to the Disadvantage of the rest
of the World. Were it not for the Pleasure of
speaking Ill, there are Numbers of People who are
too lazy to go out of their own Houses, and too ill-natur’d
to open their Lips in Conversation. It was not
a little diverting the other Day to observe a Lady
reading a Post-Letter, and at these Words, ’After
all her Airs, he has heard some Story or other, and
the Match is broke off’, give Orders in the midst
of her Reading, ‘Put to the Horses.’
That a young Woman of Merit has missed an advantagious
Settlement, was News not to be delayed, lest some Body
else should have given her malicious Acquaintance that
Satisfaction before her. The Unwillingness to
receive good Tidings is a Quality as inseparable from
a Scandal-Bearer, as the Readiness to divulge bad.
But, alas, how wretchedly low and contemptible is
that State of Mind, that cannot be pleased but by
what is the Subject of Lamentation. This Temper
has ever been in the highest Degree odious to gallant
Spirits. The
Persian Soldier, who was
heard reviling
Alexander the Great, was well
admonished by his Officer;
Sir, you are paid to
fight against Alexander,
and not to rail at
him.
Cicero in one of his Pleadings, [1] defending
his Client from general Scandal, says very handsomely,
and with much Reason, There are many who have particular
Engagements to the Prosecutor: There are many
who are known to have ill-will to him for whom I appear;
there are many who are naturally addicted to Defamation,
and envious of any Good to any Man, who may have contributed
to spread Reports of this kind: For nothing is
so swift as Scandal, nothing is more easily sent abroad,
nothing received with more Welcome, nothing diffuses
it self so universally. I shall not desire, that
if any Report to our Disadvantage has any Ground for
it, you would overlook or extenuate it: But if
there be any thing advanced without a Person who can
say whence he had it, or which is attested by one
who forgot who told him it, or who had it from one
of so little Consideration that he did not then think
it worth his Notice, all such Testimonies as these,
I know, you will think too slight to have any Credit
against the Innocence and Honour of your Fellow-Citizen.