Tell her that she was carried under your heart, as the sprout was carried in the bosom of mother earth, and that it is a very holy and beautiful thing; so holy and so beautiful that the refined and sweet people of the world do not talk freely of the subject, but keep it like a religion, for those very near to them.
Then say, You will hear other children, who have not been told this by their mothers, speak rudely and even jest on this subject. They are to be pitied, for not knowing such jests are vulgar, but you must walk away from them, and refuse to listen, after telling them your mother has explained all you need to know. Impress upon her that she is never to discuss the topic with any one else, unless you advise her to do so.
I have known only two mothers who took this method with their children, but both succeeded in rearing beautiful and remarkable daughters and sons. For the sons were included in the talk by one mother, and they were ideal boys and gentlemen—popular with, and respected by their comrades, in spite of their delicacy and reserve on subjects jested over by other boys.
I am sure that you can protect Genevieve from the soil and shock you fear for her, by making her your confidante at this early age, and by convincing her of your loving companionship in the future. Under no other conditions would I for one day allow a little girl (or a little boy for that matter) to attend a public school. Not one parent in a thousand realizes the moral dangers surrounding small children who go to and from school in country or city places.
Many remember their own precocious education on forbidden topics, yet seem to imagine their children will be immune from such experiences.
But until the Creator produces life by some new process, children will never be exempt from curiosity regarding the present method, and parents may as well realize the fact and become their children’s reverent instructors, instead of leaving them to be taught God’s holiest truths by vulgar chance or dreadful design.
Do not imagine that innocence necessitates ignorance.
Your child will be far more innocent minded, if you give her the instruction I suggest, than if you leave her to ungoverned imagination and unenlightened observation.
Deep in each human entity the sex impulse is planted, and will assert itself sooner or later.
Ignorance and curiosity lead often to precocious development of the impulse. By proper care on your part, your child’s mind may be kept normal, innocent, and wholesome.
See to it that you give this important care before you leave.
To Mr. Ray Gilbert
Attorney at Law, Aged Thirty