There are times when we should refrain from speaking all the truth, but we should refrain by silence or an adroit change of subject. We should not feel called upon to relate all the unpleasant truths we know of people.
When asked what we know of some acquaintance, we are justified in telling the worthy and commendable traits, and saying nothing of the faults.
Therefore, while to suppress a portion of the truth is at times wise and kind, to distort it, or misstate facts, is never needed and never excusable.
When you and Zoe came from your drive one day you were full of excitement over an adventure with a Greek road merchant.
As you told the story, the handsome peddler had accosted you at the exit of the post-office and asked you to look at his wares.
When you declined he became familiar, paid a compliment to Zoe’s beauty, and assured her that a certain lace shawl in his possession would be irresistible draped about her face.
Then he had pursued the carriage on his wheel and continued to “make eyes” and pay compliments to the very gate of my home, where he abandoned the chase.
The facts were, according to further investigation, that the man paid a simple trade compliment in reference to the shawl and its becomingness to a pretty face, mounted his wheel and rode away, as it happened, in the same direction you and Zoe were taking.
Again, you related a bit of repartee between Zoe and a caller, which I had chanced to over-hear, and out of two short sentences you made a small brochure, most amusing, but most untrue.
It was complimentary to both Zoe and her caller, yet it was not the conversation which took place, and therefore was not truthful.
These are trifling incidents, yet they are the straws, telling that the wind blows from the marsh-lands of inexactness—not from the mountain tops of truth.
Once a woman loses a sense of the great value of absolute truthfulness, she has blurred the clear mirror of her soul.
Put yourself upon a diet of facts, my sweet young friend, and cure this propensity, harmless enough now, but dangerous for your future.
Watch your tongue that it does not say five or six when it should say two, or yards when it should say inches.
Even in the smallest matters, practise the habit of being exact.
You will thank me for this advice sometime, even if it seems unreasonable to you to-day, and remember, I would not take the liberty or the trouble to so advise you, did I not love you and feel anxious for your welfare.
To Sybyl Marchmont
Who Has Learned Her Origin
Your despairing letter lies before me. I wish you were here, my dear child, that I might talk from my heart, instead of writing from it. I am sorry that the secret, so long hidden, has been revealed to you, and in such a despicable manner.