good liking. My friend, quoth Hippothadee, take
my words in the sense wherein I meant them, and do
not misinterpret me. When I tell you,—If
it please God,—do I to you any wrong therein?
Is it an ill expression? Is it a blaspheming
clause or reserve any way scandalous unto the world?
Do not we thereby honour the Lord God Almighty, Creator,
Protector, and Conserver of all things? Is not
that a mean whereby we do acknowledge him to be the
sole giver of all whatsoever is good? Do not
we in that manifest our faith that we believe all
things to depend upon his infinite and incomprehensible
bounty, and that without him nothing can be produced,
nor after its production be of any value, force, or
power, without the concurring aid and favour of his
assisting grace? Is it not a canonical and authentic
exception, worthy to be premised to all our undertakings?
Is it not expedient that what we propose unto ourselves
be still referred to what shall be disposed of by
the sacred will of God, unto which all things must
acquiesce in the heavens as well as on the earth?
Is not that verily a sanctifying of his holy name?
My friend, you shall not be a cuckold, if it please
God, nor shall we need to despair of the knowledge
of his good will and pleasure herein, as if it were
such an abstruse and mysteriously hidden secret that
for the clear understanding thereof it were necessary
to consult with those of his celestial privy council,
or expressly make a voyage unto the empyrean chamber
where order is given for the effectuating of his most
holy pleasures. The great God hath done us this
good, that he hath declared and revealed them to us
openly and plainly, and described them in the Holy
Bible. There will you find that you shall never
be a cuckold, that is to say, your wife shall never
be a strumpet, if you make choice of one of a commendable
extraction, descended of honest parents, and instructed
in all piety and virtue—such a one as hath
not at any time haunted or frequented the company
or conversation of those that are of corrupt and depraved
manners, one loving and fearing God, who taketh a
singular delight in drawing near to him by faith and
the cordial observing of his sacred commandments—and
finally, one who, standing in awe of the Divine Majesty
of the Most High, will be loth to offend him and lose
the favourable kindness of his grace through any defect
of faith or transgression against the ordinances of
his holy law, wherein adultery is most rigorously
forbidden and a close adherence to her husband alone
most strictly and severely enjoined; yea, in such
sort that she is to cherish, serve, and love him above
anything, next to God, that meriteth to be beloved.
In the interim, for the better schooling of her in
these instructions, and that the wholesome doctrine
of a matrimonial duty may take the deeper root in
her mind, you must needs carry yourself so on your
part, and your behaviour is to be such, that you are
to go before her in a good example, by entertaining