exists the number of married women is limited, and
a countless number of women who are without support
remain over; those in the upper classes vegetate as
useless old maids, those in the lower are reduced to
very hard work of a distasteful nature, or become
prostitutes, and lead a life which is as joyless as
it is void of honour. But under such circumstances
they become a necessity to the masculine sex; so that
their position is openly recognised as a special means
for protecting from seduction those other women favoured
by fate either to have found husbands, or who hope
to find them. In London alone there are 80,000
prostitutes. Then what are these women who have
come too quickly to this most terrible end but human
sacrifices on the altar of monogamy? The women
here referred to and who are placed in this wretched
position are the inevitable counterbalance to the
European lady, with her pretensions and arrogance.
Hence polygamy is a real benefit to the female sex,
taking it as a whole. And, on the other
hand, there is no reason why a man whose wife suffers
from chronic illness, or remains barren, or has gradually
become too old for him, should not take a second.
Many people become converts to Mormonism for the precise
reasons that they condemn the unnatural institution
of monogamy. The conferring of unnatural rights
upon women has imposed unnatural duties upon them,
the violation of which, however, makes them unhappy.
For example, many a man thinks marriage unadvisable
as far as his social standing and monetary position
are concerned, unless he contracts a brilliant match.
He will then wish to win a woman of his own choice
under different conditions, namely, under those which
will render safe her future and that of her children.
Be the conditions ever so just, reasonable, and adequate,
and she consents by giving up those undue privileges
which marriage, as the basis of civil society, alone
can bestow, she must to a certain extent lose her honour
and lead a life of loneliness; since human nature
makes us dependent on the opinion of others in a way
that is completely out of proportion to its value.
While, if the woman does not consent, she runs the
risk of being compelled to marry a man she dislikes,
or of shrivelling up into an old maid; for the time
allotted to her to find a home is very short.
In view of this side of the institution of monogamy,
Thomasius’s profoundly learned treatise, de
Concubinatu, is well worth reading, for it shows
that, among all nations, and in all ages, down to the
Lutheran Reformation, concubinage was allowed, nay,
that it was an institution, in a certain measure even
recognised by law and associated with no dishonour.
And it held this position until the Lutheran Reformation,
when it was recognised as another means for justifying
the marriage of the clergy; whereupon the Catholic
party did not dare to remain behindhand in the matter.