This hypothesis threw me into a fever of excitement, without the stimulus of which I do not believe I should have had the courage and patience to collect, classify, and weave into one fabric the enormous number of facts and opinions contained within the covers of Romantic Love and Personal Beauty.  I believed that at last something new under the sun had been found, and I was so much afraid that the discovery might leak out prematurely, that for two years I kept the first half of my title a secret, telling inquisitive friends merely that I was writing a book on Personal Beauty.  And no one but an author who is in love with his theme and whose theme is love can quite realize what a supreme delight it was—­with occasional moments of anxious suspense—­to go through thousands of books in the libraries of America, England, France, and Germany and find that all discoverable facts, properly interpreted, bore out my seemingly paradoxical and reckless theory.

SKEPTICAL CRITICS

When the book appeared some of the critics accepted my conclusions, but a larger number pooh-poohed them.  Here are a few specimen comments: 

“His great theses are, first, that romantic love is an entirely modern invention; and, secondly, that romantic love and conjugal love are two things essentially different....  Now both these theses are luckily false.”

“He is wrong when he says there was no such thing as pre-matrimonial love known to the ancients.”

“I don’t believe in his theory at all, and ... no one is likely to believe in it after candid examination.”

“A ridiculous theory.”

“It was a misfortune when Mr. Finck ran afoul of this theory.”

“Mr. Finck will not need to live many years in order to be ashamed of it.”

“His thesis is not worth writing about.”

“It is true that he has uttered a profoundly original thought, but, unfortunately, the depth of its originality is surpassed by its fathomless stupidity.”

“If in the light of these and a million other facts, we should undertake to explain why nobody had anticipated Mr. Finck’s theory that love is a modern sentiment, we should say it might be because nobody who felt inspired to write about it was ever so extensively unacquainted with the literature of the human passions.”

“Romantic love has always existed, in every clime and age, since man left simian society; and the records of travellers show that it is to be found even among the lowest savages.”

ROBERT BURTON