“I oversaw the two flirting and was highly amused at the manner in which they went about it.  It consisted almost entirely in tickling and pinching, each sally being accompanied by roars of laughter.  They never kissed, as such a thing is unknown in Africa.”

GALLA COARSENESS

South of Abyssinia there are three peoples—­the Galla, Somali, and Harari—­among some of whom, if we may believe Dr. Paulitschke, the germs of true love are to be found.  Let us briefly examine them in turn, with Paulitschke’s arguments.  Hartmann (401) assigns to the Gallas a high rank among African races, and Paulitschke (B.z.E., 51-56) describes them as more intelligent than the Somali, but also more licentious.  Boys marry at sixteen to eighteen, girls at twelve to sixteen.  The women are compelled to do most of the hard work; wives are often badly treated, and when their husbands get tired of them they send them away.  Good friends lend each other their wives, and they also lend them to guests.  If a man kills his wife no one minds it.  Few Schoa girls are virgins when they marry (Eth.  N. Afr., 195), and the married women are easily led from the path of virtue by small presents.  In other parts girls take a pride in preserving their purity, but atone for it by a dissolute life after marriage.  Brides are subjected to an obscene examination, and if not found pure are supposed to be legally disqualified from marriage.  To avoid the disgrace, the parents bribe the bridegroom to keep the secret, and to assert the bride’s innocence.  A curious detail of Galla courtship consists in the precautions the parents of rich youths have to take to protect them from designing poor girls and their mothers.  Often, when the parents of a rich youth are averse to the match, the coy bride goes to their hut, jumps over the surrounding hedge, and remains there enduring the family’s abuse until they finally accept her.  To prevent such an invasion—­a sort of inverted capture, in which the woman is the aggressor—­the parents of rich sons build very high hedges round their houses to keep out girls!  Not infrequently, boys and girls are married when only six or eight years old, and forthwith live together as husband and wife.

SOMALI LOVE-AFFAIRS

It is among the neighbors of these Gallas that Paulitschke (30) fancied he discovered the existence of refined love: 

“Adult youths and maidens have occasion, especially while tending the cattle, to form attachments.  These are of an idealized nature, because the young folks are brought up in a remarkably chaste and serious manner.  The father is proud of his blooming daughter and guards her like a treasure....  In my opinion, marriages among the Western Somals are mostly based on cordial mutual affection.  A young man renders homage to his beloved in song.  ‘Thou