The only thing, it seems to me, that one may do, is to love people, if one can.  It is the mood from which sympathy and help spring that matters, not the spoken word or the material aid.  In the worst troubles one cannot help people at all.  The knowledge that others love you does not fill the aching gap made by the death of child or lover or friend.  And now too, in these democratic days, when compassion and help are more or less organised, when the sense of the community that children should be taught issues in Education Bills, and the feeling that sick people must be tended is expressed by hospitals—­when the world has thus been specialised, tangible benevolence is a much more complex affair.  It seems clear that it is not really a benevolent thing to give money to anyone who happens to ask for it; and it is equally clear, it seems to me, that not much is done by lecturing people vaguely about their sins and negligences; one must have a very clear sense of one’s own victories over evil, and the tactics one has employed, to do that; and if one is conscious, as I am, of not having made a very successful show of resistance to personal faults and failings, the pastoral attitude is not an easy one to adopt.  But if one loves people, the problem is not so difficult—­or rather it solves itself.  One can compare notes, and discuss qualities, and try to see what one admires and thinks beautiful; and the only way, after all, to make other people good, if that is the end in view, is to be good oneself in such a way that other people want to be good too.

The thing which really differentiates people from each other, and which sets a few fine souls ahead of the crowd, is a certain clearness of vision.  Most of us take things for granted from the beginning, accept the opinions and conventions of the world, and muddle along, taking things as they come, our only aim being to collect in our own corner as many of the good things of life as we can gather round us.  Indeed, it must be confessed that among the commonest motives for showing kindness are the credit that results, and the sense of power and influence that ensues.  But that is no good at all to the giver.  For the fact is that behind life, as we see it, there lies a very strange and deep mystery, something stronger and larger than we can any of us at all grasp.  There are a thousand roads to the city of God, and no two roads are the same, though they all lead to the same place.  If we take up the role of being useful, the danger is that we become planted, like a kind of professional guide-post, giving incomplete directions to others, instead of finding the way for ourselves.  The mistake lies in thinking that things are unknowable when they are only unknown.  Many mists have melted already before the eyes of the pilgrims, and the tracks grow plainer on the hillside; and thus the clearer vision of which I speak is the thing to be desired by all.  We must try to see things as they are, not obscured by prejudice or privilege