’Now, my dear, reverse, as I daily do, this charming prospect.  See my dear mother, sorrowing in her closet; endeavouring to suppress her sorrow at her table, and in those retirements where sorrow was before a stranger:  hanging down her pensive head:  smiles no more beaming over her benign aspect:  her virtue made to suffer for faults she could not be guilty of:  her patience continually tried (because she has more of it than any other) with repetitions of faults she is as much wounded by, as those can be from whom she so often hears of them:  taking to herself, as the fountain-head, a taint which only had infected one of the under-currents:  afraid to open her lips (were she willing) in my favour, lest it should be thought she has any bias in her own mind to failings that never could have been suspected in her:  robbed of that pleasing merit, which the mother of well-nurtured and hopeful children may glory in:  every one who visits her, or is visited by her, by dumb show, and looks that mean more than words can express, condoling where they used to congratulate:  the affected silence wounding:  the compassionating look reminding:  the half-suppressed sigh in them, calling up deeper sighs from her; and their averted eyes, while they endeavour to restrain the rising tear, provoking tears from her, that will not be restrained.

’When I consider these things, and, added to these, the pangs that tear in pieces the stronger heart of my father, because it cannot relieve itself by those which carry the torturing grief to the eyes of softer spirits:  the overboiling tumults of my impatient and uncontroulable brother, piqued to the heart of his honour, in the fall of a sister, in whom he once gloried:  the pride of an elder sister, who had given unwilling way to the honours paid over her head to one born after her:  and, lastly, the dishonour I have brought upon two uncles, who each contended which should most favour their then happy niece:—­When, I say, I reflect upon my fault in these strong, yet just lights, what room can there be to censure any body but my unhappy self? and how much reason have I to say, If I justify myself, mine own heart shall condemn me:  if I say I am perfect, it shall also prove me perverse?’

Here permit me to lay down my pen for a few moments.

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You are very obliging to me, intentionally, I know, when you tell me, it is in my power to hasten the day of Mr. Hickman’s happiness.  But yet, give me leave to say, that I admire this kind assurance less than any other paragraph of your letter.

In the first place you know it is not in my power to say when I can dismiss my physician; and you should not put the celebration of a marriage intended by yourself, and so desirable to your mother, upon so precarious an issue.  Nor will I accept of a compliment, which must mean a slight to her.

If any thing could give me a relish for life, after what I have suffered, it would be the hopes of the continuance of the more than sisterly love, which has, for years, uninterruptedly bound us together as one mind.—­And why, my dear, should you defer giving (by a tie still stronger) another friend to one who has so few?