betrothed, die before she arrived at maturity, she
became the property of the heirs of her betrothed husband,
though she might never have seen either this reputed
husband, or the person who, as his representative,
claimed her as his wife by virtue of the betrothal.
In New Zealand, if the spouse of a female child dies
before she is taken to his home, she is never allowed
to marry any one else. By this custom young children
become the widows of little boys or old men, according
to the whims of their fathers. Another horrible
practice of the Australians is, the exchange of daughters
by their fathers. This is very common among the
chiefs, the exchange being made with as little concern
as jockeys exchange their horses. It is stated
that the poorer men sometimes supplied themselves
with wives after the manner of the Romans in the case
of the Sabine Rape; and that when victorious in war,
the women and girls captured were taken as wives,
while the male prisoners were put to death. But
where they were able to afford it, they preferred
the betrothal system, as giving them more consequence.
Not only in Australia, but in the other countries
where early betrothal was practiced, if, when a boy
grew up, he formed a dislike to his betrothed, or
for some other whim desired to cast her off, he was
at liberty to do so, but no such privilege was granted
the girl. Then, as now in civilized nations,
those making the laws were careful to make them all
to their own advantage.
In the foundation of some of the nations of antiquity,
men were frequently gathered, from almost every quarter
of the then known globe, to the particular spot that
seemed best suited for the purposes of self-aggrandizement;
and, in the rude horde thus congregated together,
there was necessarily an undue preponderance of the
male element. In some instances, not one woman
was to be found in such a community. The tribes
more immediately contiguous to these settlements, if
such they might be called, were not inclined to enter
into friendly relations with them, and therefore they
were unable to supply themselves with wives in the
usual manner; consequently, they had recourse to other
means. Sometimes women were procured by stratagem;
sometimes bands of marauders sallied forth, and stole,
or in some other equally exceptionable way took possession
of, the women of the neighboring or of hostile tribes.
Ordinarily, the poor victims submitted to their fate
with the best grace they might; but if one thus taken
by force attempted to make her escape from him who
claimed her as his wife, and was unfortunate enough
to be retaken, a spear, or some similar weapon, was
thrust through the fleshy portion of one of her limbs,
effectually disabling her from making another attempt
of the kind; and not unfrequently the combined bodily
pain and mental anguish terminated in death—a
happy release.