while they talk, may seem curious, but it is a custom
that we may not criticize either with fairness or
common decency. The same may be said of the not
uncommon custom of using a part of the street floor
of the house as a stable. It is an old custom,
brought from Spain. But I have wandered from description
to incident. I have no intention to attempt a
description of Cuban home life, beyond saying that
I have been a guest in costly homes in the city and
in the little palm-leaf “shacks” of peasants,
and have invariably found in both, and in the homes
of intermediate classes, only cordial hospitality and
gracious courtesy. Those who have found anything
different have carried it with them in their own attitude
toward their hosts. Many of us, probably most
of us, in the United States, make a sort of fetich
of the privacy of what we call our home life.
We are encased in walls of wood or masonry, with blinds,
curtains, or shades at our windows. It might be
supposed that we wanted to hide, that there was something
of which to be ashamed. It might at least be
so interpreted by one unfamiliar with our ways.
It is only, like the open domestic life in Cuba, a
custom, a habit of long standing. Certainly,
much of the domestic life of Cuba is open. The
mistress of the house chides a servant, rebukes or
comforts a child, sits with her embroidery, chaffers
with an itinerant merchant or with the clerk from
a store, all in plain sight and hearing of the passer-by.
What everyone does, no one notices. The customs
of any country are curious only to those from other
countries where customs are different. Our ways
of life are quite as curious to others as are their
ways to us. We are quite blind to that fact chiefly
because of an absurd conviction of the immense superiority
of our ways. We do not stop to consider reasons
for differences. A cup of coffee on an American
breakfast table usually consists of about four parts
coffee and one part milk or cream. Most Cubans
usually reverse these percentages. There is a
good reason for it. In our climate, we do not
need the large open doors and windows, the high ceilings,
and the full and free ventilation that make life endurable
in tropical and sub-tropical countries. Their
system here would be as impossible as would be our
system there. Houses in Cuba like those of an
American city or town would make life a miserable burden.
The publicity, or semi-publicity, of Cuban home life
is a necessary result of conditions. It is, naturally,
more in evidence in the city proper, where the houses,
abutting immediately on the street, as do most of our
city houses, are built, as ours are, in solid rows.
We avoid a good deal of publicity by piling our homes
on top of each other, and by elevators and stair-climbing.