of joy and sorrow.  Well, the long and short of it all is, that I honestly pity him.  He may have given sly knocks in his life, but he can’t hurt any one now.  I pity his ignorance, his weakness, his pusillanimity.  He has tasted the real sweetness of life no more than its bitterness; he has never dreamed, nor experimented, nor dared; he has never known any but mercenary affection; neither men nor women have risked aught for him—­for his good spirits, his good looks, his empty pockets.  How I should like to give him, for once, a real sensation!

26th.—­I took a row this morning with Theodore a couple of miles along the lake, to a point where we went ashore and lounged away an hour in the sunshine, which is still very comfortable.  Poor Theodore seems troubled about many things.  For one, he is troubled about me:  he is actually more anxious about my future than I myself; he thinks better of me than I do of myself; he is so deucedly conscientious, so scrupulous, so averse to giving offence or to brusquer any situation before it has played itself out, that he shrinks from betraying his apprehensions or asking direct questions.  But I know that he would like very much to extract from me some intimation that there is something under the sun I should like to do.  I catch myself in the act of taking—­heaven forgive me!—­a half-malignant joy in confounding his expectations—­leading his generous sympathies off the scent by giving him momentary glimpses of my latent wickedness.  But in Theodore I have so firm a friend that I shall have a considerable job if I ever find it needful to make him change his mind about me.  He admires me—­that’s absolute; he takes my low moral tone for an eccentricity of genius, and it only imparts an extra flavor—­a haut gout—­to the charm of my intercourse.  Nevertheless, I can see that he is disappointed.  I have even less to show, after all these years, than he had hoped.  Heaven help us! little enough it must strike him as being.  What a contradiction there is in our being friends at all!  I believe we shall end with hating each other.  It’s all very well now—­our agreeing to differ, for we haven’t opposed interests.  But if we should really clash, the situation would be warm!  I wonder, as it is, that Theodore keeps his patience with me.  His education since we parted should tend logically to make him despise me.  He has studied, thought, suffered, loved—­loved those very plain sisters and nieces.  Poor me! how should I be virtuous?  I have no sisters, plain or pretty!—­nothing to love, work for, live for.  My dear Theodore, if you are going one of these days to despise me and drop me—­in the name of comfort, come to the point at once, and make an end of our state of tension.