shy off from any similar confidence as to their own
affairs: also those individuals who borrow small
sums of money and never repay them, but go on borrowing
till the small sums amount to a good deal. To
the same class may be referred the persona who lay
themselves out for saying disagreeable things, the
“candid friends” of Canning, the “people
who speak their mind,” who form such pests of
society. To find fault is to right-feeling men
a very painful thing; but some take to the work with
avidity and delight. And while people of cultivation
shrink, with a delicate intuition, from saying any
thing which may give pain or cause uneasiness to others,
there are others who are ever painfully treading upon
the moral corns of all around them. Sometimes
this is done designedly: as by Mr. Snarling,
who by long practice has attained the power of hinting
and insinuating, in the course of a forenoon call,
as many unpleasant things as may germinate into a
crop of ill-tempers and worries which shall make the
house at which he called uncomfortable all that day.
Sometimes it is done unawares, as by Mr. Boor, who,
through pure ignorance and coarseness, is always bellowing
out things which it is disagreeable to some one, or
to several, to hear. Which was it, I wonder, Boor
or Snarling, who once reached the dignity of the mitre,
and who at prayers in his house uttered this supplication
on behalf of a lady visitor who was kneeling beside
him: “Bless our friend, Mrs. ——:
give her a little more common sense; and teach her
to dress a little less like a tragedy queen than she
does at present”?
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But who shall reckon up the countless circumstances
which lie like a depressing burden on the energies
of men, and make them work at that disadvantage which
we have thought of under the figure of carrying
weight in life? There are men who carry weight
in a damp, marshy neighborhood, who, amid bracing
mountain air might have done things which now they
will never do. There are men who carry weight
in an uncomfortable house: in smoky chimneys:
in a study with a dismal look-out: in distance
from a railway-station: in ten miles between them
and a bookseller’s shop. Give another hundred
a year of income, and the poor struggling parson who
preaches dull sermons will astonish you by the talent
he will exhibit when his mind is freed from the dismal
depressing influence of ceaseless scheming to keep
the wolf from the door. Let the poor little sick
child grow strong and well, and with how much better
heart will its father face the work of life! Let
the clergyman who preached, in a spiritless enough
way, to a handful of uneducated rustics, be placed
in a charge where weekly he has to address a large
cultivated congregation, and, with the new stimulus,
latent powers may manifest themselves which no one
fancied he possessed, and he may prove quite an eloquent
and attractive preacher. A dull, quiet man, whom
you esteemed as a blockhead, may suddenly be valued