Young men, for instance, how often they do things
in secret of which it is a shame even to speak, just
because it is pleasant. Young women, how often
do they sell themselves and their own modesty, just
for the pleasure of being flattered and courted, and
of getting a few fine clothes. How often do
men, just for the pleasure of drink, besot their souls
and bodies, madden their tempers, neglect their families,
make themselves every Saturday night, and often half
the week, too, lower than the beasts which perish.
And then, when a clergyman complains of them, they
think him unreasonable; and by so thinking, show that
he is right, and St. Paul right: for if I say
to you, My dear young people (and I do say it), if
you give way to filthy living and filthy talking,
and to drunkenness, and to vanity about fine clothes,
you will surely die—do you not say in your
hearts, ’How unreasonable: how hard on
us! If we can enjoy ourselves a little, why
should we not? It is our right, and do it we
will; and if it is wrong, it ought not to be wrong.’
Why, what is that but saying, that you ought to do
just what your body likes: that you are debtors
to your flesh; and that your flesh, and not God’s
law, is your master. So again, when people grow
older, perhaps they are more prudent about bad living,
and more careful of their money: but still they
live after the flesh. One man sets his heart
on making money, and cares for nothing but that; breaks
God’s law for that, as if that was the thing
to which he was a debtor, bound by some law which
he could not avoid to scrape and scrape money together
for ever. Another (and how often we see that)
is a slave to his own pride and temper, which are
just as much bred in his flesh: if he has been
injured by any one, if he has taken a dislike against
any one, he cannot forget and forgive: the man
may be upright and kindly on many other points; prudent,
too, and sober, and thoroughly master of himself on
most matters; and yet you will find that when he gets
on that one point, he is not master of himself; for
his flesh is master of him: he may be a strong-minded,
shrewd man upon most matters but just that one point:
some old quarrel, or grudge, or suspicion, is, as
we say, his weak point: and if you touch on that,
the man’s eye will kindle, and his face redden,
and his lip tremble, and he will show that he is not
master of himself: but that he is over-mastered
by his fleshly passion, by the suspiciousness, or
revengefulness, or touchiness, which every dumb animal
has as well as he, which is not part of his man’s
nature, not part of God’s image in him, but which
is like the beasts which perish.
Now, my friends, suppose I said to you, ’If you give way to such tempers; if you give way to pride, suspicion, sullen spite, settled dislike of any human being, you will surely die;’ should you not, some of you, be inclined to think me very unreasonable, and to say in your hearts, ’Have I not a right to be angry? Have I not a right to give a man as good as he brings?’ so confessing that I am right, after all, and that some of you think that you are debtors to your flesh, and its tempers, and do not see that you are meant to be masters, and not slaves, of your tempers and feelings.