The Delights of Wisdom Pertaining to Conjugial Love eBook

This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 291 pages of information about The Delights of Wisdom Pertaining to Conjugial Love.

The Delights of Wisdom Pertaining to Conjugial Love eBook

This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 291 pages of information about The Delights of Wisdom Pertaining to Conjugial Love.
similar things:  and yet the angels charged those things upon some as evils of sin, and upon others as not evils, and declared the latter guiltless, but the former guilty; and on being questioned why they did so, when the deeds were alike, they replied, that they regard all from purpose, intention, or end, and distinguish accordingly; and that on this account they excuse and condemn those whom the end excuses and condemns, since all in heaven are influenced by a good end, and all in hell by an evil end; and that this, and nothing else, is meant by the Lord’s words, Judge not, that ye be not judged, Matt. vii.  I.

454.  IX.  THE LUST OF FORNICATION IS MORE GRIEVOUS AS IT VERGES TO THE DESIRE OF VARIETIES AND OF DEFLORATION.  The reason of this is, because these two desires are accessories of adulteries, and thus aggravations of it:  for there are mild adulteries, grievous adulteries, and most grievous; and each kind is estimated according to its opposition to, and consequent destruction of, conjugial love.  That the desire of varieties and the desire of defloration, strengthened by being brought into act, destroy conjugial love, and drown it as it were in the bottom of the sea, will be seen presently, when those subjects come to be treated of.

455.  X. THE SPHERE OF THE LUST OF FORNICATION, SUCH AS IT IS IN THE BEGINNING, IS A MIDDLE SPHERE BETWEEN THE SPHERE OF ADULTEROUS LOVE AND THE SPHERE OF CONJUGIAL LOVE, AND MAKES AN EQUILIBRIUM.  The two spheres, of adulterous love and conjugial love, were treated of in the foregoing chapter, where it was shewn that the sphere of adulterous love ascends from hell, and the sphere of conjugial love descends from heaven, n. 435; that those two spheres meet each other in each world, but do not unite, n. 436; that between those two spheres there is an equilibrium, and that man is in it, n. 437; that a man can turn himself to whichever sphere he pleases; but that so far as he turns himself to the one, so far he turns himself from the other, n. 438:  for the meaning of spheres, see n. 434, and the passages there cited.  The reason why the sphere of the lust of fornication is a middle sphere between those two spheres, and makes an equilibrium, is, because while any one is in it, he can turn himself to the sphere of conjugial love, that is, to this love, and also to the sphere of the love of adultery, that is, to the love of adultery; but if he turns himself to conjugial love, he turns himself to heaven; if to the love of adultery, he turns himself to hell:  each is in the man’s free determination, good pleasure, and will, to the intent that he may act freely according to reason, and not from instinct:  consequently that he may be a man, and appropriate to himself influx, and not a beast, which appropriates nothing thereof to itself.  It is said the lust of fornication such as it is in the beginning, because at that time it is in a middle state.  Who does not know that whatever a man does in the beginning, is from concupiscence, because from the natural man?  And who does not know that that concupiscence is not imputed, while from natural he is becoming spiritual?  The case is similar in regard to the lust of fornication, while a man’s love is becoming conjugial.

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