the future time at all. A bee, you know, cannot
see more than a single inch before it; and there are
many men, and perhaps more women, who appear, as regards
their domestic concerns, to be very much of bees:
not bees in the respect of being busy; but bees in
the respect of being blind. You see this in all
ranks of life. You see it in the artisan, earning
good wages, yet with every prospect of being weeks
out of work next summer or winter, who yet will not
be persuaded to lay by a little in preparation for
a rainy day. You see it in the country gentleman,
who, having five thousand a year; spends ten thousand
a year; resolutely shutting his eyes to the certain
and not very remote consequences. You see it in
the man who walks into a shop and buys a lot of things
which he has not the money to pay for, in the vague
hope that something will turn up. It is a comparatively
thoughtful and anxious class of men who systematically
overcloud the present by anticipations of the future.
The more usual thing is to sacrifice the future to
the present; to grasp at what in the way of present
gratification or gain can be got, with very little
thought of the consequences. You see silly women,
the wives of men whose families are mainly dependent
on their lives, constantly urging on their husbands
to extravagances which eat up the little provision
which might have been made for themselves and their
children when he is gone who earned their bread.
There is no sadder sight, I think, than that which
is not a very uncommon sight, the careworn, anxious
husband, laboring beyond his strength, often sorrowfully
calculating how he may make the ends to meet, denying
himself in every way; and the extravagant idiot of
a wife, bedizened with jewelry and arrayed in velvet
and lace, who tosses away his hard earnings in reckless
extravagance; in entertainments which he cannot afford,
given to people who do not care a rush for him; in
preposterous dress; in absurd furniture; in needless
men-servants; in green-grocers above measure; in resolute
aping of the way of living of people with twice or
three times the means. It is sad to see all the
forethought, prudence, and moderation of the wedded
pair confined to one of them. You would say that
it will not be any solid consolation to the widow,
when the husband is fairly worried into his grave at
last,—when his daughters have to go out
as governesses, and she has to let lodgings,—to
reflect that while he lived they never failed to have
Champagne at his dinner-parties; and that they had
three men to wait at table on such occasions, while
Mr. Smith, next door, had never more than one and
a maidservant. If such idiotic women would but
look forward, and consider how all this must end!
If the professional man spends all he earns, what
remains when the supply is cut off; when the toiling
head and hand can toil no more? Ah, a little
of the economy and management which must perforce
be practised after that might have tended powerfully