This I hope therefore of thee, my Hermann, that into our dwelling
Thou wilt be bringing ere long a bride who is handsomely dowered;
For it is meet that a gallant young man have an opulent maiden.
Great is the comfort of home whene’er, with the woman elected,
Enter the useful presents, besides, in box and in basket.
Not for this many a year in vain has the mother been busy
Making her daughter’s linens of strong and delicate texture;
God-parents have not in vain been giving their vessels of silver,
And the father laid by in his desk the rare pieces of money;
For there a day will come when she, with her gifts and possessions,
Shall that youth rejoice who has chosen her out of all others.
Well do I know how good in a house is a woman’s position,
Who her own furniture round her knows, in kitchen and chamber;
Who herself the bed and herself the table has covered.
Only a well-dowered bride should I like to receive to my dwelling.
She who is poor is sure, in the end, to be scorned by her husband;
And will as servant be held, who as servant came in with her bundle.
Men will remain unjust when the season of love is gone over.
Yes, my Hermann, thy father’s old age thou greatly canst gladden,
If thou a daughter-in-law will speedily bring to my dwelling,
Out of the neighborhood here,—from the house over yonder, the green one.
Rich is the man, I can tell thee. His manufactures and traffic
Daily are making him richer; for whence draws the merchant not profit?
Three daughters only he has, to divide his fortune among them.
True that the eldest already is taken; but there is the second
Still to be had, as well as the third; and not long so, it may be.
I would never have lingered till now, had I been in thy place;
But had fetched one of the maidens, as once I bore off thy dear mother.”
Modestly then did the son to the urgent father make
answer:
“Truly ’twas my wish too, as well as thine
own, to have chosen
One of our neighbor’s daughters, for we had
been brought up together;
Played, in the early days, about the market-place
fountain;
And, from the other boys’ rudeness, I often
have been their defender.
That, though, is long since past: the girls,
as they grew to be older,
Properly stayed in the house, and shunned the more
boisterous pastimes.
Well brought up are they, surely! I used sometimes
to go over,
Partly to gratify thee, and because of our former
acquaintance:
But no pleasure I ever could take in being among them;
For I was always obliged to endure their censures
upon me.
Quite too long was my coat, the cloth too coarse,
and the color
Quite too common; my hair was not cropped, as it should
be, and frizzled.
I was resolved, at last, that I, also, would dress
myself finely,
Just as those office-boys do who always are seen there
on Sundays,
Wearing in summer their half-silken flaps, that dangle