in the intimate friendship which grew closer as the
time of parting drew nigh. Lady Lovelace died
in 1852; and for her few remaining years, Lady Byron
was devoted to her grandchildren. But nearer calls
never lessened her interest in remoter objects.
Her mind was of the large and clear quality which
could comprehend remote interests in their true proportions,
and achieve each aim as perfectly as if it were the
only one. Her agents used to say that it was
impossible to mistake her directions; and thus her
business was usually well done. There was no room,
in her case, for the ordinary doubts, censures, and
sneers about the misapplication of bounty. Her
taste did not lie in the “Charity Ball”
direction; her funds were not lavished in encouraging
hypocrisy and improvidence among the idle and worthless;
and the quality of her charity was, in fact, as admirable
as its quantity. Her chief aim was the extension
and improvement of popular education; but there was
no kind of misery that she heard of that she did not
palliate to the utmost, and no kind of solace that
her quick imagination and sympathy could devise that
she did not administer. In her methods, she united
consideration and frankness with singular success.
For one instance among a thousand:—A lady
with whom she had had friendly relations some time
before, and who became impoverished in a quiet way
by hopeless sickness, preferred poverty, with an easy
conscience, to a competency attended by some uncertainty
about the perfect rectitude of the resource. Lady
Byron wrote to an intermediate person exactly what
she thought of the case. Whether the judgment
of the sufferer was right or mistaken was nobody’s
business but her own: this was the first point.
Next, a voluntary poverty could never be pitied by
anybody: that was the second. But it was
painful to others to think of the mortification to
benevolent feelings which attends poverty; and there
could be no objection to arresting that pain.
Therefore she, Lady Byron, had lodged in a neighboring
bank the sum of one hundred pounds, to be used for
benevolent purposes; and in order to preclude all
outside speculation, she had made the money payable
to the order of the intermediate person, so that the
sufferer’s name need not appear at all.
Five-and-thirty years of unremitting secret bounty
like this must make up a great amount of human happiness:
but this was only one of a wide variety of methods
of doing good. It was the unconcealable magnitude
of her beneficence, and its wise quality, which made
her a second time the theme of English conversation
in all honest households within the four seas.
Years ago, it was said far and wide, that Lady Byron
was doing more good than anybody else in England; and
it was difficult to imagine how anybody could do more.
Lord Byron spent every shilling that the law allowed
him out of her property, while he lived, and left
away from her every shilling that he could deprive
her of by his will; yet she had eventually a large