of our Characters, but from the Intimations Men gather
from our Aspect. A Man, they say, wears the Picture
of his Mind in his Countenance; and one Man’s
Eyes are Spectacles to his who looks at him to read
his Heart. But tho that Way of raising an Opinion
of those we behold in Publick is very fallacious,
certain it is, that those, who by their Words and
Actions take as much upon themselves, as they can
but barely demand in the strict Scrutiny of their Deserts,
will find their Account lessen every Day. A modest
Man preserves his Character, as a frugal Man does
his Fortune; if either of them live to the Height
of either, one will find Losses, the other Errors,
which he has not Stock by him to make up. It
were therefore a just Rule, to keep your Desires,
your Words and Actions, within the Regard you observe
your Friends have for you; and never, if it were in
a Man’s Power, to take as much as he possibly
might either in Preferment or Reputation. My Walks
have lately been among the mercantile Part of the World;
and one gets Phrases naturally from those with whom
one converses: I say then, he that in his Air,
his Treatment of others, or an habitual Arrogance to
himself, gives himself Credit for the least Article
of more Wit, Wisdom, Goodness, or Valour than he can
possibly produce if he is called upon, will find the
World break in upon him, and consider him as one who
has cheated them of all the Esteem they had before
allowed him. This brings a Commission of Bankruptcy
upon him; and he that might have gone on to his Lifes
End in a prosperous Way, by aiming at more than he
should, is no longer Proprietor of what he really
had before, but his Pretensions fare as all Things
do which are torn instead of being divided.
There is no one living would deny Cinna the
Applause of an agreeable and facetious Wit; or could
possibly pretend that there is not something inimitably
unforced and diverting in his Manner of delivering
all his Sentiments in Conversation, if he were able
to conceal the strong Desire of Applause which he
betrays in every Syllable he utters. But they
who converse with him, see that all the Civilities
they could do to him, or the kind Things they could
say to him, would fall short of what he expects; and
therefore instead of shewing him the Esteem they have
for his Merit, their Reflections turn only upon that
they observe he has of it himself.
If you go among the Women, and behold Gloriana
trip into a Room with that theatrical Ostentation
of her Charms, Mirtilla with that soft Regularity
in her Motion, Chloe with such an indifferent
Familiarity, Corinna with such a fond Approach,
and Roxana with such a Demand of Respect in
the great Gravity of her Entrance; you find all the
Sex, who understand themselves and act naturally,
wait only for their Absence, to tell you that all
these Ladies would impose themselves upon you; and
each of them carry in their Behaviour a Consciousness
of so much more than they should pretend to, that
they lose what would otherwise be given them.