from their parents. I have known repeated instances
of this kind. Many little ones, when they first
come to our schools, make use of dreadful expressions,
and when told that it is wrong, will say that they
did not know it was so; others, with the greatest
simplicity, have declared, that they had heard their
fathers or mothers say the same words. Hence
I have had much difficulty in persuading them that
it was wrong, for they very naturally thought, that
if their parents made use of such language, they might
do the same. How great is the necessity of good
example; and did parents generally consider how apt
children are to receive impressions, and to become
imitators, both in their words and actions, they would
be more cautious than they are. There are many
parents who make use of very bad expressions themselves,
who would correct their children for using the same;—as
a proof of this, I will mention one circumstance, out
of many others, that took place in the school I superintended
many years since. We had a little girl there,
five years old, who was so fond of the school, that
she frequently stopped after the usual hours to play
with my children and some others who chose to stay
in the play-ground. Many of them would stop till
eight or nine o’clock at night, to which I had
no objection, provided their parents approved of it,
and they did not get into mischief; it being desirable
to keep them out of the streets as much as possible.
It happened, however, one day, that some of the children,
offended this child, and she called them by dreadful
names, such as I cannot repeat; and, of course, the
others were terrified, and told me of them immediately.
I was soon satisfied that the child was ignorant of
the meaning of what she said, for, as an excuse for
her conduct, she declared that she heard her father
and mother use the same words. I told the child,
that notwithstanding her parents might have done so,
it was very wicked, and that I could not let her stay
another time to play, if ever she did so again.
Having sent for the mother, I informed her of the
expressions the child had used, but did not tell her
what she had mentioned relative to her parents, for
if I had, she would have beaten her most unmercifully.
The mother, after having heard me relate the circumstance,
immediately flew into a passion with the child, and
declared, that she would “skin her alive,”
(this was her expression,) and I had much difficulty
to restrain her from correcting the child in the school.
Having pacified her a little, I inquired where the
child could have heard such wicked expressions.
She said she could not tell. I then told her,
I hoped the child did not learn them of her, or her
father. To this she made no answer, but I could
perceive that she stood self-convicted, and having
said what I conceived necessary upon the occasion,
I dismissed her, observing that it was useless for
ladies and gentlemen to establish schools for the
education of the infant poor, if the parents did not
assist by setting them a good example.