parents. A grown person and an infant, what a
contrast! True it is, that many a child has become
very unmanageable, but this may always be traced to
early neglect. If from the earliest infancy the
young mind is trained to little acts of obedience,
they will soon become habitual and pleasant to perform;
but if improper indulgence and foolish kindness be
practised towards children, they must, of course, grow
up peevish, fretful, and ill-tempered, obstinate, saucy,
and unmanageable. “Whatsoever a man soweth
that shall he reap.” Let this truth be
ever engraved upon the minds of all parents. A
constant exercise of parental love in allowing all
that is fit and proper, and a firm and judicious use
of parental authority, in strictly refusing and forbidding
all that is unsuitable or wrong, should harmoniously
unite their power in training up the young. Punishments,
as a last resource, ought to be used; but never in
a spirit of anger, wrath, or revenge. If administered
calmly and mildly they will have a double power.
Every wilful offence of a child seems to say, “Correct
me, but with judgment.” It may be painful
to a parent to put on the “graver countenance
of love,” but
true parental love will
always do it. Oh that all parents in every rank
of life saw and acted upon the great truth, that the
noblest object that they can present to themselves,
and the greatest obligation that is laid upon them,
is to rear up their children to intelligence, virtue,
and piety; to make them good rather than great, for
if they are the former, they will assuredly be the
latter in its highest and truest sense.[A]
[Footnote A: Should the reader be pleased with
this volume, I may refer to another work of mine just
published, entitled “A System for the Education
of the Young.”]
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Having now finished all that I have to say on Infant
Schools, I would, in conclusion, breathe forth a sincere
petition to the throne of Divine Truth and Goodness,
for the prosperity and spread of the System; in which
I am sure I shall be joined by all who have been convinced
of its beneficial effects in promoting the present
and everlasting welfare of human beings.
Mysterious are thy ways, O God; yet who was ever disappointed
that asked of thee in a right spirit? Prosper,
then, thy work which is begun in the world, we beseech
thee, O Lord; may thy gracious providence so encircle
and protect the rising generation, that there may
be no more complaining in our streets. Protect
them, O Lord, from the many dangers that surround
them, as soon as they draw their breath in this vale
of tears, and put into the hearts of those who have
the means to consider the state of the infant poor,
to give them the assistance they need. Grant
that thy blessed example may be followed by many,
for thou didst desire that children should come unto
thee, and not be forbidden, and thou didst take them
up in thine arms and bless them, declaring, that of