Miss Lister wrote to Lord John on September 9, 1840: 

Sad as your letters are, it is still a relief to have them.  I will hope for you though you cannot for yourself....  I cannot thank you as I wish and feel for all you are with regard to the children, for all you have been to them.  I never can think of it without tears of gratitude....  You have been more than even an own father could have been.  And by your example—­an example of all that is good and pure and great in mind and conduct—­you are doing for them more than any other teaching can do.

For a few days Lady Fanny seems to have felt that the matter was irrevocably settled:  “The more I think of what has happened, the more I bewilder myself—­I therefore do not think at all.”

But on the following day she writes:  “Though I do not think, I dream.  I dreamt of him last night on some of Catherine’s bride cake, and that Miss Lister wrote to me of him as one whose equal could not be found in the whole world.”

Of one thing she was certain, she did not want to leave her home:  “The west hills looking beautiful as we walked round the church.  What a pleasure it is to have a church in such a situation!  One worships God the better from seeing His beauty so displayed around....  Walked in the glen and wandered about the burn and top of Mama’s glen, wondering how anybody could ever ask me to leave all that is so much too dear.

“Yesterday [October 23] received a letter from Miss Lister.  Tells me a great deal about him—­the way in which he first named me since, and his keeping the book, and much more that is very, very touching; but I will not sentimentalize even to my journal, for fear of losing my firmness again.”

Meanwhile, gossip was busy coupling her name with Lord John’s, and the Press published the rumour.

    Lady Minto to Lady Mary Abercromby

    MINTO, November 9, 1840

...  You will see in the papers the report of Fanny’s marriage to Lord John Russell.  It is very annoying to her, and I had a few lines (very touching) from him begging me to have it contradicted, which I had already done.  If you ask me my reasons why, I cannot tell you, but I have a sort of feeling that she will marry him still.  Gina says certainly not, and neither Lizzy nor I think her opinions or feelings changed, but I feel it in my skin!!!  Still, these feelings are not infallible....  Will you tell me if I wish it or not?  For I have now thought so much about it I don’t know my own mind.  If I knew that she would not marry at all, if she did not marry him, then I should most miserably lament that she refused him; but I also know as certainly, that if she told me that upon second thoughts she had accepted him, I should be too unhappy to be able to look as I ought to do.  In short, dearest Mary, I heartily wish it had never happened.  I was obliged to tell John [Elliot] of it, as the report