but in populousness. This we must remember and
console the mortal element of our being with an endless
succession of generations like torches. Thus
the one gap which separates us from divine happiness
may through relays of men be filled by immortality.
It was for this cause most of all that that first
and greatest god who fashioned us divided the race
of mortals in twain, rendering one half of it male
and the other female, and added love and the compulsion
of their intercourse together, making their association
fruitful, that by the young continually born he might
in a way render mortality eternal. Even of the
gods themselves some are believed to be male, the
rest female: and the tradition prevails that
some have begotten others and certain ones have been
born of others. So, even among them, who need
no such device, marriage and child-begetting have
been approved as noble. [-3-] You have done right,
then, to imitate the gods and right to emulate your
fathers, that, just as they begot you, you may also
bring others into the world. Just as you deem
them and name them ancestors, others will regard you
and address you in similar fashion. The undertakings
which they nobly achieved and handed down to you with
glory you will hand on to others. The possessions
which they acquired and left to you will leave to
others sprung from your own loins. Surely the
best of all things is a woman who is temperate, domestic,
a good house-keeper, a rearer of children; one to gladden
you when in health, to tend you when sick; to be your
partner in good fortune, to console you in misfortune;
to restrain the frenzied nature of the youth and to
temper the superannuated severity of the old man.
Is it not a delight to acknowledge a child bearing
the nature of both, to nurture and educate it, a physical
image and a spiritual image, so that in its growth
you yourself live again? Is it not most blessed
on departing from life to leave behind a successor
to and inheritor of one’s substance and family,
something that is one’s own, sprung from one’s
self? And to have only one’s human part
waste away, but to live through the child as successor?
We need not be in the hands of aliens, as in war, nor
perish utterly, as in war. These are the private
advantages that accrue to those who marry and beget
children: but for the State, for whose sake we
ought to do many things that are even distasteful
to us, how excellent and how necessary it is, if cities
and peoples are to exist, if you are to rule others
and others are to obey you, that there should be a
multitude of men to till the earth in peace and quiet,
to make voyages, practice arts, follow handicrafts,
men who in war will protect what we already have with
the greater zeal because of family ties and will replace
those that fall by others. Therefore, men,—for
you alone may properly be called men,—and
fathers,—for you are worthy to hold this
title like myself,—I love you and I praise
you for this, I am glad of the prizes I have already
offered and I will glorify you still more besides
by honors and offices. Thus you may yourselves
reap great benefits and leave them to your children
undiminished. I shall now descend to speak to
the rest, who have not done like you, and whose lot
will therefore be directly the opposite: you will
thus learn not only from words but by facts even more
how far you excel them.”