eye than her own, as the late Canon Bennett suggests,
destroyed them before her death. Still some idea
of their life together, short as it really was, notwithstanding
it lasted, in name, for over sixteen years, may be
gained from the manner in which his widow always spoke
of him after his death. She always wore a ring
containing a lock of his hair, and measured everything
by his standard of morality and honour. The greatest
disapprobation she could express was “Mr. Cook
would never have done so.” He was always
Mr. Cook to her. She kept four days each year
as solemn fasts, remaining in her own room. The
days were those on which she lost her husband and
three sons, passing them in reading her husband’s
Bible, prayer and meditation, and during bad weather
she could not sleep for thinking of those at sea.
For her husband’s sake she befriended her nephews
and nieces whom she never saw. Of her three sons,
two entered the Navy. One, Nathaniel, was lost
with his ship, the Thunderer, in a hurricane off Jamaica
in 1780. The eldest, James, rose to the rank
of Commander, and in January 1794 was appointed to
H.M. sloop Spitfire. He was at Poole when he
received his orders to join his ship at Portsmouth
without delay. Finding an open boat with sailors
returning from leave about to start, he joined them.
It was blowing rather hard, and nothing was ever heard
of the passengers or crew, except that the broken
boat and the dead body of the unfortunate young officer,
stripped of all money and valuables, with a wound
in the head, was found ashore on the Isle of Wight.
The third son, Hugh, was entered at Christ’s
College, Cambridge, in 1793, but contracting scarlet
fever he died on 21st December of that year, and was
buried in the church of St. Andrew the Great, being
joined by his brother James a few weeks afterwards,
when the mother was left indeed alone. She survived
her husband for the long period of fifty-six years,
living at Clapham with her cousin, Admiral Isaac Smith,
and at length joined her two sons at Cambridge at the
advanced age of ninety-three.
Cook’s character as given by those with whom
he worked, men who day after day were by his side,
was a fine one. His greatest fault seems to have
been his hasty temper, which he admitted himself, often
most regretfully; but Captain King says it was “disarmed
by a disposition the most benevolent and humane,”
and it never was displayed in such a manner as to
cause the loss of respect and affection of his people.
He was healthy and vigorous in mind and body, clear-headed
and cool in times of danger, broad minded and temperate,
and plain and unaffected in manner. His powers
of observation were of the first rank, his knowledge
of Naval mathematics far surpassed the ordinary level
and amounted to genius, but, above all, his devotion
to duty was the commanding feature of his character.
Nothing was allowed to interfere when he saw his course
before him; personal convenience was not allowed to