happily condescend to marry:  otherwise, &c., why should a man marry, saith another epicurean rout, what’s matrimony but a matter of money? why should free nature be entrenched on, confined or obliged, to this or that man or woman, with these manacles of body and goods? &c.  There are those too that dearly love, admire and follow women all their lives long, sponsi Penelopes, never well but in their company, wistly gazing on their beauties, observing close, hanging after them, dallying still with them, and yet dare not, will not marry.  Many poor people, and of the meaner sort, are too distrustful of God’s providence, “they will not, dare not for such worldly respects,” fear of want, woes, miseries, or that they shall light, as [5928]"Lemnius saith, on a scold, a slut, or a bad wife.”  And therefore, [5929]_Tristem Juventam venere deserta colunt_, they are resolved to live single, as [5930]Epaminondas did, [5931]_Nil ait esse prius, melius nil coelibe vita_, and ready with Hippolitus to abjure all women, [5932]_Detestor omnes, horreo, fugio, execror_, &c.  But,

“Hippolite nescis quod fugis vitae bonum,
Hippolite nescis”------

“alas, poor Hippolitus, thou knowest not what thou sayest, ’tis otherwise, Hippolitus.” [5933]Some make a doubt, an uxor literato sit ducenda, whether a scholar should marry, if she be fair she will bring him back from his grammar to his horn book, or else with kissing and dalliance she will hinder his study; if foul with scolding, he cannot well intend to do both, as Philippus Beroaldus, that great Bononian doctor, once writ, impediri enim studia literarum, &c., but he recanted at last, and in a solemn sort with true conceived words he did ask the world and all women forgiveness.  But you shall have the story as he relates himself, in his Commentaries on the sixth of Apuleius.  For a long time I lived a single life, et ab uxore ducenda semper abhorrui, nec quicquam libero lecto censui jucundius.  I could not abide marriage, but as a rambler, erraticus ac volaticus amator (to use his own words) per multiplices amores discurrebam, I took a snatch where I could get it; nay more, I railed at marriage downright, and in a public auditory, when I did interpret that sixth Satire of Juvenal, out of Plutarch and Seneca, I did heap up all the dicteries I could against women; but now recant with Stesichorus, palinodiam cano, nec poenitet censeri in ordine maritorum, I approve of marriage, I am glad I am a [5934]married man, I am heartily glad I have a wife, so sweet a wife, so noble a wife, so young, so chaste a wife, so loving a wife, and I do wish and desire all other men to marry; and especially scholars, that as of old Martia did by Hortensius, Terentia by Tullius, Calphurnia to Plinius, Pudentilla to Apuleius, [5935]hold the candle whilst their husbands did meditate and write, so theirs may do them, and as my dear Camilla doth to me.  Let other men be averse, rail then and