Theodosius, the emperor, in short space took notice
of her excellent beauty and good parts, and a little
after, upon his sister’s sole commendation, made
her his wife: ’twas nobly done of Theodosius.
[5891]Rudophe was the fairest lady in her days in all
Egypt; she went to wash her, and by chance, (her maids
meanwhile looking but carelessly to her clothes) an
eagle stole away one of her shoes, and laid it in
Psammeticus the King of Egypt’s lap at Memphis:
he wondered at the excellency of the shoe and pretty
foot, but more Aquilae, factum, at the manner
of the bringing of it: and caused forthwith proclamation
to be made, that she that owned that shoe should come
presently to his court; the virgin came, and was forthwith
married to the king. I say this was heroically
done, and like a prince: I commend him for it,
and all such as have means, that will either do (as
he did) themselves, or so for love, &c., marry their
children. If he be rich, let him take such a one
as wants, if she be virtuously given; for as Siracides,
cap. 7. ver. 19. adviseth, “Forego not a wife
and good woman; for her grace is above gold.”
If she have fortunes of her own, let her make a man.
Danaus of Lacedaemon had a many daughters to bestow,
and means enough for them all, he never stood inquiring
after great matches, as others used to do, but [5892]sent
for a company of brave young gallants to his house,
and bid his daughters choose every one one, whom she
liked best, and take him for her husband, without
any more ado. This act of his was much approved
in those times. But in this iron age of ours,
we respect riches alone, (for a maid must buy her husband
now with a great dowry, if she will have him) covetousness
and filthy lucre mars all good matches, or some such
by-respects. Crales, a Servian prince (as Nicephorus
Gregoras Rom. hist. lib. 6. relates it,) was
an earnest suitor to Eudocia, the emperor’s
sister; though her brother much desired it, yet she
could not [5893]abide him, for he had three former
wives, all basely abused; but the emperor still, Cralis
amicitiam magni faciens, because he was a great
prince, and a troublesome neighbour, much desired
his affinity, and to that end betrothed his own daughter
Simonida to him, a little girl five years of age (he
being forty-five,) and five [5894]years older than
the emperor himself: such disproportionable and
unlikely matches can wealth and a fair fortune make.
And yet not that alone, it is not only money, but
sometimes vainglory, pride, ambition, do as much harm
as wretched covetousness itself in another extreme.
If a yeoman have one sole daughter, he must overmatch
her, above her birth and calling, to a gentleman forsooth,
because of her great portion, too good for one of her
own rank, as he supposeth: a gentleman’s
daughter and heir must be married to a knight baronet’s
eldest son at least; and a knight’s only daughter
to a baron himself, or an earl, and so upwards, her
great dower deserves it. And thus striving for